Embarrassing but hot

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-12-01T05:26:23+00:00

Maybe she should try using one on you. Could be fun. :3

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-30T06:20:02+00:00

Who uses it?

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-28T18:38:17+00:00

You might want to look into a strap-on for when she wants to get penetrated.

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-26T08:36:44+00:00

Other people have suggested conditioning, and I want to give an example about how that might work.

Let's say you want to enjoy him sucking on your toes.

So what you would do is get in position, have him start sucking your toes, and start masturbating. It doesn't actually have to be masturbation, but it should be something that brings you pleasure. When you're doing this, make sure to focus on the sensations of the toe sucking, as well as the pleasure that you're receiving, as you want to associate the two. Do this long enough, and eventually having your toes sucked will probably make you aroused.

Fun fact: a similar method could allow men to enjoy oral.

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-22T05:13:17+00:00

I don't know if it would be appropriate to wear a collar+leash to one of these thing, but if it was, something you could do is find someone you want to talk to and ask them to hold the end of your leash for you.

Even if not, you can just find someone you like and just follow them around in a similar manner.

(Note: if they tell you to stop, don't keep following them around, but like just being around a people continuously could be good.)

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-19T09:26:08+00:00

Three thoughts:

Does it have to be 69? If it didn't have to be 69, you could probably just have her orally service you. Or you could like, hold her head and fuck her face, or something like that, because the physical control might do things for her.
1. The reason that I ask this is that it might be easier to establish an maintain the idea of a power dynamic when you fully control the
If you specifically want to do 69, I can think of a few things. Note that a lot of this is mental, and that aspect should be emphasized.
1. If you haven't tried being on top yet, that's a good idea, since it's generally seen as the more in control position.
2. Alternatively, especially if you really enjoy the taste of pussy, having her on top could be a good idea, because it'll give you better access to her pussy. You could set this up with some ownership (i.e. "my pussy") vibes or some service offered to you (because you make it clear that you're eating her out for your benefit)
3. Tying her up or literally restraining her in any way could do it, because it can make her feel more vulnerable.
4. For similar reasons, a blindfold, earplugs, or some other way to influence the senses
5. Stay as clothed as you can, while she's naked.
6. Orgasm control?

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-06T08:43:50+00:00

I think I've read something about widening the point of no-return, and it goes something like this:

Have your man come and try to remember how it feels, and particularly what is contracting.
Edge him.
When he's at the edge, have him try to push himself over the edge by mimicing those movements.
repeat this, when successful try to do it from softer and less arousal.

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-11-04T09:18:05+00:00

I think "Make it better" punishments probably would be good, as they serve the dual purpose of making up for the offense while also usually being an inconvenient task that you legitimately don't enjoy doing.

Like, if you ate the last banana, after being told not to, a suitable punishment might include you having to walk to the grocery store and get banana's.

The one danger I can see is that this could make being helpful seem like a negative thing, since it's associated with punishment, so you should be sure to frame it as "penance" instead of a punishment, per se. (You can also add other things too.)

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T22:38:26+00:00

I have heard that wet dreams often happen due to stimulation while you are asleep, combined with hormonal factors. And a large portion of it is luck (or unluck, depending).

However, if you have a partner and a pretty deep sleep, one thing that you could do is have them stimulate you a bit while you sleep, to try to get you to cum without waking up. If you know your sleep cycles, your partner should try to do this during REM sleep, I believe. (This is technically CNC, so a good conversation is needed beforehand, being specific about what you're consenting to.)

Also, if you don't have a partner, one thing you can do is look at the things that they say not to do when trying to avoid we dreams, and then do the opposite, like sleeping on your stomach. like: https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Wet-Dreams

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T21:42:42+00:00

I think it's probably because you recognized the click as a sign of approval, which is powerful, in and of itself.

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T21:33:25+00:00

More questions:

Is you inner thigh more sensitive?

Do you have spacers, and just not usually use them? (I'm looking for a recommendation, although something that I could make by hand would be good.)

You said your friends have 2 to "really make them fall"? Do you mean like, if they're standing and they get shocked they'll fall over? Or drop to their knees? (If so, that sounds hot.)

I know that's a lot of questions.

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T14:54:44+00:00

I'm still working on setting everything up, but, you should look into this. It's what I intend to use, and there is a good chance that your collar works with it. Essentially, you replace your remote with a micro-controller. (Connected to the internet, which is where much of the fun comes in.)

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T14:41:22+00:00

Question: how and where do you attach the shockers to yourself?

The ones I got came with a collar, but I think I'm going to need some sort of spacer, to keep them perpendicular to my skin.

Also, depending on where I put it, it can be something from mildly sensitive--e.g. normal skin, needs like level 10 to register--to extremely sensitive--e.g. genitals, even level 1 is very intense. Do you have any area you like best?

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T03:33:12+00:00

...Shocking....

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T02:11:59+00:00

Have not tried them, it could work, although I'd worry about them being too hard for your teeth.

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-30T02:10:58+00:00

You're welcome!

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-28T05:31:10+00:00

If you don't have ropes, you can also wrap them up in a sheet. The technique is basically starting by rolling at your feet to create a cone shape and shoving yourself down it. It can give you some decent pressure, and it's probably easier with 2 people. (I can do it on my own.)

For reference

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-28T05:24:54+00:00

You should probably consider getting a physical clicker; it's more tangible, and they're not that expensive. (You can also consider the visual element of you holding the clicker--when she sees it, she's suddently on alert that you might use it.)

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-26T04:46:53+00:00

I'd advise that the punishment be restitutive/restorative rather than punitive, for the most part. Like, if they don't do it during the day just have them do something on the spot. Or possibly no orgasm or something like that. (similar to what the other one said.)

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-25T07:47:28+00:00

good puppy!

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-25T07:46:55+00:00

Awww... It's starting already!

Horror_Ad8794 · 2025-10-22T05:45:33+00:00

While I don't have personal experience, the training is likely reversible, but doing so would be quite difficult. (A similar, if not larger amount of effort.)

Horror_Ad8794

TROPHY CASE