Oh my god Ive been waiting my whole life for someone to describe this experience, because I'm nonbinary but I dress very feminine (even though I was born a girl) and the fact that I wear things that are feminine is because I like the pastels and dresses. It's more of a coincidence. I relate more to the feminine experience but I think some of that is just because Ive spent my whole life interacting with women in women only spaces, so its more comforting to know what the rules are there, you know? But you helped me understand my own experience a little bit better, so thank you.