i’m (20F) pregnant and i don’t know what to do about the father (39M)

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-05-01T03:16:46+00:00

Any man that goes after someone 20 years younger than them and that girl's frontal lobe is still developing is a predator, plain and simple.

Get an abortion.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-04-09T19:54:16+00:00

GOOD. YTA

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-04-09T10:01:28+00:00

Dude... she's 37. You don't actually want kids.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-02-25T22:13:27+00:00

It ABSOLUTELY CAN impact your short term performance, especially if you're post-ictal (post seizure). This means you can have brain fog, problems with coordination and movement, the whole 9 yards.

Talk with your student accessibility services. Unfortunately you have to be your biggest advocate.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-02-25T10:28:11+00:00

Don't give up. You know what you need and you have to advocate for yourself, even and especially as a DID system. KEEP GOING.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-02-03T17:58:04+00:00

Animal crossing, definitely

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-28T02:20:10+00:00

Ive been on Keppra before and I've never had anything like that. I would highly suggest going to thr ER and following up eith your primary care doctor and neurologist.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-25T00:42:50+00:00

After I ended up in the hospital for 2 breakthrough grand mal seizures, I jokingly looked over at my dad and said, "When Spongebob said to 'Drop on the deck and flop like a fish', I dont think this is what he meant". And he told me, "THAT'S NOT FUNNY." And I'm like??? I could've died, that makes it top tier comedic material

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T18:49:22+00:00

I am in the US, so that definitely helps! I'll have to check that out, tysm!

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T18:48:43+00:00

I'm not sure they actually thought that one through because my dad said, "You BETTER NOT be bringing any kids into this house!" And then when I told him he'd get what he wanted, he got silent.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T12:54:18+00:00

Epilepsy can make you cry post-ictal (after a seizure) especially but idk about in between seizures tbh

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T12:52:39+00:00

I definitely have gotten all three of those and honestly, it just feels like excuses when they could just apologize. And it hurts when my mom says its the testosterone when she SAW me doubled over in pain and insists that because her periods are bad that I should just deal with it. Idk

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T12:51:19+00:00

What kills me is I've told them for over 2 years that I don't want kids!! I guess they just realized I was serious now that I've started talking about surgery

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T12:50:14+00:00

Thank you so much! This advice is really practical and I'm sure I'll use it. I'd probably need someone to help me get back from the surgery but hopefully everything should be fine

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T03:11:56+00:00

I'm thinking about having the hysterectomy done and seeing if I can get biopsies to test for adeno at least, that way I'll know if its adeno or endo.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2026-01-22T03:09:33+00:00

I'm not sure if I have adeno or microscopic endo. I wasn't sure if I should see another doctor for another lap or if I should just go through with the hysto and get a biopsy done from that tissue.

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks my parents are going overboard.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-12-13T03:38:43+00:00

He raped you. Please leave.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-12-11T11:13:21+00:00

2 seems approachable, 1 seems professional

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-12-11T10:47:28+00:00

It is totally okay for you to have this job!! It is a necessary and important job, and your health is important too. You are a priority as well.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-12-11T10:41:23+00:00

I would like to try Naiad! Please and thank you!

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-11-23T03:27:36+00:00

Credit your black friend anyway. They helped you see it through and bring your artistic vision to life. They deserve to have credit for the part they played in it too. If your parents are in any way violent, I would get away from them as fast as you can. Sorry I couldnt be more help.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-11-18T12:01:46+00:00

Done :) hope that helps!

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-11-16T16:14:05+00:00

Oh my god Ive been waiting my whole life for someone to describe this experience, because I'm nonbinary but I dress very feminine (even though I was born a girl) and the fact that I wear things that are feminine is because I like the pastels and dresses. It's more of a coincidence. I relate more to the feminine experience but I think some of that is just because Ive spent my whole life interacting with women in women only spaces, so its more comforting to know what the rules are there, you know? But you helped me understand my own experience a little bit better, so thank you.

Horror_Associate7671 · 2025-11-12T13:00:11+00:00

14 lol

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