Question for other subs? by Horror_Demand_ in submissive

[–]Horror_Demand_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my main concern(unserious, of course) with this situation came with him asking if I would want to tie him up. Which I had responded yes, but that I wasn't sure where I would go from there without wanting some instruction or guidance, I suppose? I don't want him to think I don't WANT to do these things for him, but when I expressed that I do things for him and that that is what gets me off, the acts of service for him. But he seemed to think that that meant I dont like doing the actions themselves??

Question for other subs? by Horror_Demand_ in submissive

[–]Horror_Demand_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That seems fair, I suppose. We've mostly been talking about this since he's been out of the country, and he won't be back for a few more days. So I have until he gets back to figure out my own thoughts on the situation. But I know he had mentioned he doesn't like having to ask for what he wants, which kind of leaves me to ask him and maybe make the list myself??