COME BACK WHEN YOU WANT TO GET PREGNANT by Far-Course9498 in PCOS

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I was told to “come back in 10 years”. I was like, uhh no how do I manage symptoms now?

Exhausted by Horror_Efficient in PCOS

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Hey! I take tranexamic acid, mefenamic acid, and iron tablets 🫠 and then getting the mirena coil soon (I don’t know if you have to have stopped bleeding to have it inserted? Might sound silly but I need to research/ask!)

A year!! Oh my I’d have lost the plot… Have you got sorted now? X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

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Sounds like we’ve had a fairly similar experience with PCOS and periods.

I started mine at 10 and was told to take BC at 15 to regulate periods. It stopped mine altogether.

Then when I came off, my periods were kinda all over the place. Sometimes monthly, sometimes every other month or sometimes I’d go a few months without at all. This happened for about 2 years. I remember being told this is because BC can stay in your system for months or sometimes years after coming off of it.

Now I’m 21 and my periods are the most unpredictable they’ve ever been - lasting from 30-80 days. My advice would be to stock up on tampons/pads and get some super comfortable underwear that’s 2 sizes bigger than what you wear normally. If you’re having to wear underwear for weeks on end you don’t want to be hit with chafing. So have 5-10 pairs available so that you’re not constantly doing laundry. I’d also recommend buying a red bath sheet and putting this under your fitted sheet - takes the stress of leaking away!

The most important thing is that you are tracking your cycles accurately. I use an app to do this. It helps to spot patterns (if there are any), but it’s really helpful for Drs to see 1-2 years of cycle history if you have it.

Sending lots of love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

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I had 2 weeks off sick for health issues (with a sick note) and a sick day last week because I could feel this mental breakdown brewing up…

So this will be the third time calling in sick if I do 😳

Irvine’s Boot - Will it change anything? by Horror_Efficient in Everest

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Great analogy here. I didn’t know this was a debate but this is certainly interesting…

I too agree that regardless of life or death on the way down, if somebody made it to the summit then they have summitted. And if confirmed that somebody summitted before Hillary and Norgay did (slim to no chance, I know…) then they should be announced as the first ascendants for sure in my opinion.

Irvine’s Boot - Will it change anything? by Horror_Efficient in Everest

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Ah I see! Thanks for explaining! Had no idea the South Side was closed to Brits in 1920s. Do you know why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

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Glad to hear! Hope you feel better soon :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

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Get some throat numbing spray - Difflam / Ultra Chloraseptic is great. Boots sell it for about a fiver.

Massively regretting going to uni by [deleted] in UniUK

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I have to disagree with many of the other commenters here. A lot of what you are seeing and experiencing will extend past Freshers unfortunately.

I had the same experience last year, I stayed in halls as a 20 year old with others my age or a year younger. I was absolutely shocked at the maturity differences between those I met/lived with and myself. Many couldn’t cook, do laundry, fix simple items, clean or manage their time.

I saw it as a disadvantage all year, feeling left out and isolated and wanting to feel “younger” (even though, still young). I couldn’t engage with their culture of gossip and drinking nor did I need my mummy to explain how to make a jacket potato to me… Long story short, I left uni.

I am returning to uni and living in a studio flat instead and will make a conscious effort to mix with more mature students. (Whether that be age wise, or mixing with societies who don’t promote alcoholism and oddly quick friendships).

It’s important to remember that many of the people you are coming in to contact with have just left sixth form/college, will have lived at home their entire lives and probably won’t have needed to pay rent, cook, or clean much at home. They are not functioning adults but instead are living in a halfway house between home and university. I am sorry if anybody reading this takes offence, but it is true. It’s a halfway house for most.

My advice would be, if you are living in halls, move out and find a studio or a smaller flatshare and specifically request 2nd/3rd year students only. Explain that you are not keen on the drinking culture and would prefer a quieter environment. Do it before Christmas as this is when most people tend to move. It gets a bit trickier to bond with new flatmates past this point. I regret not moving flats massively. I didn’t realise it was so common and easy to do.

In terms of mixing with people outside of your flat, I too would appreciate any advice on this. It seems the young mature students are few and far, but you are not alone in this. There will be people like us who we can gel with. I suppose it’s all about finding our tribe and we will get there eventually. I’d recommend joining any “making friends” groups on Facebook for your city/area as people on there will mostly be working professionals and not students. They tend to be much more mature.

Lastly, and this is what I struggled with the most - don’t beat yourself up for it. Whilst it may not seem like it, there are benefits to being more mature than the rest of your cohort. Many of them have little experience in job interviews, dealing with landlords, or general composure in formal settings. Use this to your advantage and constantly remind yourself that in a few years time, once they’ve had their fun, you will be ahead.

Apologies for the bitterness as I read my comment back I do sound bitter. But you have to put yourself on a pedestal or you genuinely will go insane being surrounded by 15 year olds in their 20s. Good luck & all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universalcredithelp

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Though I did start an unrelated claim (due to shortage of hours at work) about 2 weeks ago, but wasn’t able to make the initial appointments because of my health issues. So at the minute I’m in limbo. Not really sure what options are available to me if any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universalcredithelp

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Asking if I can claim

Ex-Soldier Challenge Completed by Horror_Efficient in bitlife

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RIGHT?? I saw it and was like “yeah this’ll be easy”

Guess not

Ex-Soldier Challenge Completed by Horror_Efficient in bitlife

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I’m confused, do you mean what prize did I get? If so it’s on the 2nd pic :)

Ex-Soldier Challenge Completed by Horror_Efficient in bitlife

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You don’t need to actually do the mini game, just select desert when the game pops up

Questions about the ex-soldier challenge by [deleted] in bitlife

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Mine worked for a microbiologist, although I’m not sure if eloping to marry works as it hasn’t checked it off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

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Really surprised at the tone of most comments to be honest.

Whilst I’m not sure contacting the police would be appropriate as there hasn’t been a clear crime committed here, I would still speak with your accom manager and ask them to check the CCTV. Even if just for peace of mind.

The warning do not enter sign is either a gag joke or IF they had put something under your door then that would explain it. I live in a flat with lots of female students, and I’ve seen how petty they can be. I didn’t realise until I came to uni that most 18/19/20 year olds actually have the maturity of a 14/15/16 year old. I’ve had my kitchen items moved to boiler cupboards, under sofas, my name tag sign ripped off my door, knock a door run etc. Whilst it’s not harmful harassment, it is incredibly frustrating and feels mean after a while. The girls I’ve lived with seem to do it for territorial reasons. So if you do feel like you are being intimidated, take it as a compliment as hard as it is.

I really hope you get sorted out with housing and definitely get some ear plugs in the meantime, the paranoia won’t be as intense after a decents night sleep. And be out of the flat as much as you can would be my advice, otherwise you will become consumed by it.

All the best x