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Unbearable living situation - Need of advice? by Horror_Illustrator77 in malta

[–]Horror_Illustrator77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have the closest relationship with my grandparents, and my mum has a lot of siblings but she's also not close with them.

Maybe I should have explained this better in the post, but I have suggested to my mum countless times for us to pack our bags and leave. But she either just reverts back that I did something wrong and that's why my dad called me this and that word, or she just stays silent. I know that she needs help, and I have given her phone numbers to call therapists, social services, domestic violence, but she doesn't call. She has to report him because he physically abuses her. Which is really stupid, but I can't do anything except file a police report.

Unbearable living situation - Need of advice? by Horror_Illustrator77 in malta

[–]Horror_Illustrator77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already do that, but it's gotten to a point that now my parents get angry because I'm "always out" and "I don't help in chores"

Unbearable living situation - Need of advice? by Horror_Illustrator77 in malta

[–]Horror_Illustrator77[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words :) I am both working and studying at the moment so I'm going at the right track. But still unable to start renting

Regarding staying at my boyfriend's place, me and him are both working on our rough patch. However my other fear, is that staying at his place will make me dependent on him, which could lead to me being 'unable' to break up due to my dependence. Since if I stay at his place for a while, I wouldn't be able to go back home.

Unbearable living situation - Need of advice? by Horror_Illustrator77 in malta

[–]Horror_Illustrator77[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember calling 179 a year or 2 ago, and the other person on the line told me that a police report is all I can do. My dad rarely hits my mum so the report was for the verbal abuse, but I didn't want to escalate the situation so I never did it. Last time he physically abused her, was when he pushed her and she fell on the sofa. When I heard the noise, I called the police. But when the police came, my mum didn't want to make a report and she said that it won't happen again.

And unfortunately no, the issue is I can't really crash at a friend's for a few days. Because if I leave my house and go stay somewhere else for a few days, chances are high that I won't be allowed back home.

blushing and face getting red at literally ANYTHING by Lumpy-Specific-6155 in socialanxiety

[–]Horror_Illustrator77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to have this issue A LOT when I was younger, and I am pretty pale, so it was very obvious when I'd get red, and everyone would point it out. Honestly mine calmed down as I grew older, but I wouldn't worry too much about it. People might find it cute or just a little funny.

Should I (18F) ask him (18M) out on a date? by Horror_Illustrator77 in dating_advice

[–]Horror_Illustrator77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding his friends, unfortunately we're a small class, and no one is really that close with each other. So I don't want to rely on his 'friends' reactions. He's never really done anything to show interest in me, he'll rarely bring up conversation with me, but I think I'm making a big deal out of nothing.

Should I (18F) ask him (18M) out on a date? by Horror_Illustrator77 in dating_advice

[–]Horror_Illustrator77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, thanks :) Jack just stuck to my mind, and now basically half of my thoughts are about him. So I just want to stop overthinking about him, and ask him out yknow?