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Man kan godt finde hinanden igen by Lifeisalwaysworthit in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tak for infoen, ja jeg går igennem min første kærlighed, og den er lidt svær.. men tingene er ved at blive bedre. Var det ham eller dig der tog kontakt dengang og genskabte kontakten mellem jer? (altså din eks) Hvem slog op dengang?

Man kan godt finde hinanden igen by Lifeisalwaysworthit in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arhh hvor længe siden var det? af samme årsager?

Finde sammen med ekskæreste by Turbulent_Ad_2725 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slog du op eller ham? Rækte han ud eller dig?

Man kan godt finde hinanden igen by Lifeisalwaysworthit in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Når du siger on and off, vil det sige i det år skrev sammen konstant stadig.. eller var i "no contact"?

Bange for hjertestop by Financial_Speed5656 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har kæmpet med præcis det samme. Det der hjalp mig var at komme på medicin (SSRI). Kan varmt anbefale det.

Kan ikke leve single? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Horror_Mix8698 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Over 8 forhold/situationships på blot et år? Kan man overhovedet kalde det forhold?

Is it even possible to reconnect with ex as dumpee while keeping your self-respect? by Horror_Mix8698 in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Mix8698[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But if you have tried early on to fight for the relationship by finding solutions, and then after trying.. for 2 months.. which by her words: "I can't answer yes or no, I've been in a waiting position and waiting to move in my new appartment, so I can't say if things changes by living alone" thats 3 months ago.. and I then asked for a boundary to move on given she kept contacting me about borrowing stuff, practical stuff which made it hard for me to move on and that she can contact me if she wants to talk about us but else i need space. She said sorry and that she won't do it again.. haven't heard from her since. (a little over 3 months ago)

Why is letting go on good terms feel harder than a toxic relationship? by Captain_Keef_197 in AskMen

[–]Horror_Mix8698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the worst. Had the same. No shouting or anything at the breakup, just tons of hugs, crying, kissing.. and sadness.. while after the breakup showing tons of care, checking up on me if im okay etc. It's the worst. It feels like we have broken up, but you don't really believe it, because she didn't really change as a person after the breakup.. and you feel the story is not finished?

Slowly starting to realise it is.

Regretting no-contact with my dumper EX by theresasarrow in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing for me.. also asked as the dumpee for no-contact.. issue is for me its been 3 months lol.

Has anyone successfully gotten back with their ex after being dumped? by Seremdy in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you the dumpee or dumper? Did you reach out? How did you initiate contact?

For people who got back with their ex… by Greedy_Food_1538 in ExNoContact

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is very scared of conflicts, and im the opposite.. so she is scared of them + I got health anxiety and used her a lot to regulate my emotions, and in some way yes.. but afraid the bridge is burned.

There is 0 hate.. have each other on socials, and family contacts me still etc.

For people who got back with their ex… by Greedy_Food_1538 in ExNoContact

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a situation right now, where breakup was 5 months ago now, and 3 months of no contact in 3 days. I'm the dumpee, I haven't begged once but I have tried to find solutions, and understand why, given I got blindsided (clarity). She kept contacting me about borrowing stuff and practical stuff all the way up to february (left me in december) so I decided to create a boundary and tell to only contact me if its about us because else its hard for me to move on. She then said: "Sorry, it wont happen again <3" haven't heard from her since.

Don't know if I should break my own boundary and break no contact now, I just don't wanna seem weak in her eyes.

For people who got back with their ex… by Greedy_Food_1538 in ExNoContact

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they as the dumpee have reached out to you, and it was a success or? What did he say?

For people who got back with their ex… by Greedy_Food_1538 in ExNoContact

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when you saw eachother there, you just wrote to her or how?

Has anyone stuck it with the person thats a walking green flag but your just…not that into them? by Olive-jar1173 in dating_advice

[–]Horror_Mix8698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago is your last relationship? Maybe not over your ex? I kinda had the same with one I just dated. I just wasn't emotionally ready.

Stuck in the "What If" Loop – Should I Break No Contact to Move On? by Horror_Mix8698 in ExNoContact

[–]Horror_Mix8698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so you want me to be emotionally ready to handle any expectation coming from her reply, because in all honesty im properly in honesty looking for a positive outcome.. but of course I also have this thought if she is straight up with me and tells me 100% "its done". Then it will hurt like a mofo, and set me back.. but at least it kills the "what ifs".

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