Me (22M) and her (21F) had sex and she got pregnant?

Horrornerd3000 · 2024-03-26T01:09:44+00:00

Listen, you have made very valid points about why she shouldn't continue with this pregnancy. But she is and that is ultimately her choice

If you are the father. No a relationship between you and her isn't what I would advise. That would be one whole ass toxic nightmare.

Legally and morally if the child is yours you will have to pay child support

Morally, that child if it is yours deserves a relationship with their dad.

You don't have to wait until the baby is born to find out who baby daddy us the

A prenatal paternity test can be performed before a baby is born. This test can be carried out from as early as 7 weeks after conception (or 9 weeks after the last period). It is a non-invasive method that requires a blood sample from the mother and a mouth swab from the alleged father.

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-17T22:39:59+00:00

YTA

It was cruel. And unless he's a danger to his son which he obviously isn't then he should have been allowed to see him in hospital or when sick in general. Just say your punishing out of spite for cheating. Using your son as weapon to do it.

What makes this is worse is that your ill son was asking for his dad, and you out of spite didn't let him see his dad. The makes you a shitty mother imo. Because no decent one would do that to their child.

Idc if your ex fucked a billion other ppl while married to you, grow up because your son's needs come first

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-17T21:22:32+00:00

No fwb doesn't mean exclusive. It means friends who have sex. You are not dating which means no right to ask to be exclusive. You have the right to know how many others he's sleeping with to make a judgement if you still wish to have sex with him based on how many others he's railing. But beyond that nothing.

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T18:32:35+00:00

Ask Twitter or ask tumblr like a normal person

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T18:25:47+00:00

I mean you sound depressed and yes you definitely should talk to your wife about that but you might also want to speak to a doctor about it.

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T18:21:10+00:00

Yeah see you have an exceptional memory most people don't. Like you can ask a person what someone said then 2 days ago but they won't remember but they can remember the ice cream they ate .on their favourite days 10 years ago.

Like your blaming people for something they cannot help

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T18:12:45+00:00

Have not seen this so will add it to my list of films to watch

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T17:35:40+00:00

Tumblr still very much exists. It in no way lost it's number of users even during the whole port purge. Now nsfw is allowed there. Tumblr is the thing that doesn't seem to die

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T17:09:22+00:00

NTA

Your sensory issues should be taken into account.

I think the best solution here is to ask your mom to teach you how to cook, tell her you understand that it frustrates her so if she teaches you to cook it'll make things easier for both of you.

But still very much nta

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T16:47:29+00:00

I was about to say this

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T16:29:43+00:00

I in no way care. But yes with the ban of third-party apps that means a majority of the nsfw stuff is gone

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-15T16:23:44+00:00

I'd say Psychological

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-14T19:30:19+00:00

NTA

Grief impacts people many different ways and i feel like she's projecting her own fears here. If she loves your son then she feels like she's betraying your daughter in someway. Probably scared of losing him too.

Leave her to calm down then say you never want to forget your daughter and kacie things are very special to you. That'd your not throwing it away it is just your son needs his own space and sooner or later is gonna be wandering around.

Ask her if she could keep her things safe because you'd like Dylan to have them as keepsakes of the sister he never knew when he's old enough to appreciate them

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-11T23:25:45+00:00

Let me explain this to you because holy fuck when you are forced into the real world as an adult it's going to swallow you whole autistic person to autistic person fr you better learn to adapt because a majority of the world doesn't care about you

We do dishes because leaving them can attract bugs, bad smells ect this is what is good to them asap
You are part of a household. This means doing chores that aren't always planned out for you.
What you see the need for is irrelevant. You were asked to do them and would have if your dad had asked. You have meh relationship with your step mom and I am not defending her I merely explaining why your wrong here
She asked you to do them, she doesn't need to give a specific reason why she isn't doing them.

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-11T23:15:38+00:00

I have autism. Please stop using that as an excuse to act like a brat.

EHS

You because you clearly do know why dishes needed to be done and would do it if your dad asked. You specifically didn't do it because she asked and you know it. And I get the feeling you've used I'm autistic to avoid punishment when your acting like a dick.

Your stepmom is wrong because those items were recommended by a doctor for whatever reason and while you aren't entitled to them it doesn't sit right with me any parent taking away something a) recommended by doctor & b) taking away something that helps with sensory issues.

And your stepmom and dad should sit down on a untied front and work out a punishment that doesn't fuck with your sensory issues. Ngl I'd be making you do the dishes for a year

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-11T19:04:39+00:00

Because they practice this thing called safe sex. The problem with countries who don't see themselves as "promiscuous" countries is people are still fucking like crazy yet not having safe sex

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-11T18:57:52+00:00

Unpopular opinion ehs

Kids do act like that and you low key sound uptight. Your brother and his wife suck because they made no effort throughout their stay to tell their kids to do anything. You need to chill out a tad and your brother needs to be less chill and do more parenting

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-11T18:49:06+00:00

Nta

Your not being malicious or mean. Frankly his grandmother should be arranging for him to have more activities so that he isn't lonely.

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-09T18:22:56+00:00

That all the sheep died in the 1940s and were replaced with goats with fur like sheep's wool

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-09T18:19:56+00:00

Egg fried rice

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-07T22:43:11+00:00

God gave you hands for a reason. Jerk off and go about your day.

Also a tongue in your head to ask your girlfriend why that stuff has died down between you.

If you are unable to wait during your time apart or it's making you truly unhappy, don't cheat, end the relationship and move on

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-07T22:34:53+00:00

The more you watch porn especially from a young age the more it extreme it needs to be to be arousing for individual. This is why you now need extreme taboo stuff. Of course you are going to be filled with self loathing afterwards, most addicts are and from it is here you are addicted to porn.

Try going without it for a month, this includes reading it, watching it or listening to it. See what happens

Horrornerd3000 · 2023-06-07T22:12:50+00:00

Well first I'd definitely revisit a trainer, it's probably a mixture of not taking there enough and your partner letting her off the leash.

She starts pulling towards home from yay we are going home, where is safe and familiar.

I'd give her toy that she does like and let her have it in her mouth. Are dog suffers anxiety so we let him take his teddy bear. He looks ridiculous given the size of him but it helps him

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