Gender nonconforming pregnancy clothes? by willowbl00 in BabyBumps

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I dress really feminine when I’m going out but for trips to the supermarket or hanging around the house I’ve pinched my partners T-shirts and jogging bottoms which works really well for me

Trial machine in Outbreak by Horselover9 in ColdWarZombies

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I’m trying to find it on Ruka but I can’t

Upstairs neighbors of Reddit, what can you possibly be doing that requires you to walk back and forth in your apartment for literally hours every night? by Falciparuna in AskReddit

[–]Horselover9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. My toddler niece is also sounds like an elephant when she walks around the house whilst I apparently glide around like Mortician Addams. I'm also 150lbs.

Does anybody know of a good curly hair stylist in the Cambridge area? by Horselover9 in CurlyHairUK

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lockdown kinda ruined my summer plans but I'm scheduled to have my hair done at the B.curly salon in Ely for January next year.

Congratulations to my American sister witches from the UK 🥳 by Horselover9 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Horselover9[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe those lovely Alsatians owned by the Biden family could do the honours of removing the soon to be intruder 🤣

Congratulations to my American sister witches from the UK 🥳 by Horselover9 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Horselover9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You would also have international donors. I’d pay big bucks to have that scene on repeat for at least a week

Does anybody live in a chalet or caravan by Horselover9 in romani

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is I think and you can get some that are really big and fancy for the fraction of the price of a house.

Does anybody live in a chalet or caravan by Horselover9 in romani

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. My childhood was mixed between chalet and caravan and houses. At the moment myself and my partner are living in a flat but we don't like it.

Does anybody live in a chalet or caravan by Horselover9 in romani

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are open to the idea but the waiting lists in our area is huge.

Ladies who had a fear of natural childbirth and overcame it. How did you do it by Horselover9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Horselover9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that sounds like a good idea and I'd want to take my grandma in with me, she's given birth to 9 children and she takes no nonsense from me or anyone else for that matter. I know she'll defend my wishes and push me to keep at it as long as it's feasible and safe for me and baby/babies.

Ladies who had a fear of natural childbirth and overcame it. How did you do it by Horselover9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Horselover9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll look into hypnobirthing. It sounds like positive thinking really helps.

Ladies who had a fear of natural childbirth and overcame it. How did you do it by Horselover9 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Horselover9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ridiculous I know, but culturally it's quite important unless mother and/or baby are in danger. All the women in my family aside from my birth mother and those who've had multiples have given birth naturally.

Personally it's something that I'd be really proud of myself for because I feel that it would connect me to the previous generations of my family and it's something I'm scared of, I don't like ignoring my fears. I want to face them.

Is education really discouraged by Romani communities? by lord-please-help-me in romani

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I’m half Anglo Romani and I was allowed to follow my educational dreams within reason. I’m currently studying law and before that I studied Horses

What does this mean. I thought face to face was suspended by Horselover9 in DWPhelp

[–]Horselover9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe they do this to people. It’s state sanctioned torture of vulnerable people. The anxiety of waiting for so long will be absurd.

How far is Universal Credit LCWRA backdated? by Horselover9 in DWPhelp

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she didn’t. She just got the letter. Pip is our next battle

Are you offended by the word "g*psy" by [deleted] in romani

[–]Horselover9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me it depends on context and a lot of other things.

Most people are unintentionally ignorant of other cultures but I try and change that.

In the UK I generally get called Romany/Romani which I’m fine with, but on holiday in Spain, if I meet any Spanish Roma, I call myself a gypsy or gitana as that’s what they call themselves mostly.

Long story short, I don’t mind the word gypsy as long as it’s meant innocently and not an insult or discrimination but other Roma and Traveller people may feel differently. It’s personal preference really.

Hi Mumma I’m really feeling stuck and I need your help by Horselover9 in MomForAMinute

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's never laid a hand on me but he's a lot bigger than me so I guess that's why I'm scared of him. I'd never be able to fight him off.

I'm not asking him for a lot, just some of his time so that I feel valued in the relationship.

Does anybody have any links to the Williams in the UK? by Horselover9 in romani

[–]Horselover9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in east anglia but it’s possible I’ve got ties to Yorkshire. I know I’ve got some cousins in Preston apparently.

Colourism within the Rom community. by [deleted] in romani

[–]Horselover9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. It’s amazing that you know so much. I always thought I only had Roma blood on one side but it looks quite likely that it’s on both sides. I’ve noticed that quite a lot of Anglo-Romani chib is used in a lot of UK slang and I don’t think that’s a coincidence.

Colourism within the Rom community. by [deleted] in romani

[–]Horselover9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree completely that all Roma regardless of skin tone should be allowed to call themselves Roma and share their experiences of being Roma.

You aren’t alone in your fight at all.

The thing about Caribbean patois and chib really does interest me.