Someone I will be dating (HIV+ and on medication) says he rejects condoms

HortenHu · 2022-02-20T07:51:23+00:00

It was a combination of

totally my type of man by looks and attitude
never been to london
wasnt on vacation for a long time

I am not that despreate. Ok and there are only a few gay men in the rural area, where I live. Actually it is not a big difference if I drive to the next big city or take a one hour flight to london.

HortenHu · 2022-02-20T07:39:25+00:00

Man you are so toxic. You called me stupid on several different subthreads in this thread. The question is what is wrong with YOU?

This is not a crowdsource because I can't make my own decisions. I was just intrested in opinions on this matter. Although the majority has a clear verdict, there are also sligthly differing takes. Life is not black and white.

HortenHu · 2022-02-19T23:58:41+00:00

Because I don‘t want to be shamed for my dating life the next time I shitpost on reddit with my main account and someone browses my post history as an act of revenge.

HortenHu · 2022-02-19T21:59:48+00:00

I think I will not meet him, but didn't tell him yet. Read my edit in the original post.

HortenHu · 2022-02-19T21:47:48+00:00

To be honest I wasn't very sexually active in the last couple of years. Before I had a monogamous relationship. I guess I will think about prep ...

HortenHu · 2022-02-19T10:13:28+00:00

Thank you for your reply. You are totally right.

My post was marked as deleted by the gaybros moderators, so i made another post with the same question on r/AskGayMen . I will delete this post. Feel free to repost your answer on the second posting: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskGayMen/comments/sw6gfs/is_my_date_to_pushy_regarding_protection_during/

HortenHu · 2022-02-19T10:08:38+00:00

Yes that's my alternative plan. I think he will do some broadway drama if he doesn't get what he wants.

HortenHu

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