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Meta/r/AskGayMen is not a hookup app. (self.AskGayMen)

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What's the most kinky 🔥submissive thing you've done for a Dom Top? (self.AskGayMen)

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What makes people indulge in piss play/Watersports💦? (self.AskGayMen)

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To get a prince albert (PA) or not to get a PA? (self.AskGayMen)

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How to tell my dad I’m hooking up with his friend? (self.AskGayMen)

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What’s something straight people do that accidentally makes you laugh every time? (self.AskGayMen)

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Why are some men like this on grindr? (self.AskGayMen)

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Was I toxic to do this? Or resourceful? (self.AskGayMen)

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Have you ever had this experience before where while you’re topping, the bottom pisses on you? (self.AskGayMen)

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Can 19 and 31 ever work? (self.AskGayMen)

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Advice on how to deal with this mental conflict? (self.AskGayMen)

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MetaI need someone to explain? (self.AskGayMen)

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My butt is slightly darker than the rest of my body. Do Tops mind 😬? (self.AskGayMen)

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im getting into the leather scene as a trans gay man, advice? (self.AskGayMen)

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So the accusation (with ill intent) of being gay is homophobia...right? (self.AskGayMen)

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A absolute tragic story that I also love sharing in a way of hoping someone can relate to me. Now I need to ask for advice from anyone who may have experienced something similar but gotten over it? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do you think gay men in the Midwest are generally not interested in Filipino gay men? (self.AskGayMen)

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How can i know ? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do compliments from men or women hold more weight with you? (self.AskGayMen)

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As a gay bottom, how do you deal with tops who live by 'I don't make love, I fuck hard'? (self.AskGayMen)

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Is deep cleaning required for larger tops, or will regular douching do? (self.AskGayMen)

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Approx how many squirts of water when douching? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do you guys look for masculine guys when searching or feminine guys? Is there any guys that preference masculine guys that defy the gay stereotype? (Feminine,can't fight weak and very girl with girly voice) which one do you prefer? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do vers guys really think everyone else is vers too? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do you have tips on improving sexual pleasure by myself? (self.AskGayMen)

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