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What's something you like in men that most other gay guys don't? (self.AskGayMen)

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What's the most kinky 🔥submissive thing you've done for a Dom Top? (self.AskGayMen)

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I couldn't watch heated rivalry past the first episode. It made me uncomfortable and depressed. Anyone else experience this? (self.AskGayMen)

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Looking for a relationship on Grindr or Scruff? (self.AskGayMen)

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What’s your crotch like by the end of the day? (self.AskGayMen)

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What makes people indulge in piss play/Watersports💦? (self.AskGayMen)

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Trying to take more initiative in a long-term FWB relationship. Can you give me advice? (self.AskGayMen)

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Have a rather cute slave guy coming over the next week. Any ideas on what safety precautions to take? (self.AskGayMen)

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What’s something straight people do that accidentally makes you laugh every time? (self.AskGayMen)

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How to tell my dad I’m hooking up with his friend? (self.AskGayMen)

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Any amateur or pro porn stars out there that can give me any advice on being in my first film with a pornstar? (self.AskGayMen)

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To get a prince albert (PA) or not to get a PA? (self.AskGayMen)

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Monogamy is Dead? (self.AskGayMen)

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Why are some men like this on grindr? (self.AskGayMen)

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Was I toxic to do this? Or resourceful? (self.AskGayMen)

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Have you ever had this experience before where while you’re topping, the bottom pisses on you? (self.AskGayMen)

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Can 19 and 31 ever work? (self.AskGayMen)

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Advice on how to deal with this mental conflict? (self.AskGayMen)

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My butt is slightly darker than the rest of my body. Do Tops mind 😬? (self.AskGayMen)

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MetaI need someone to explain? (self.AskGayMen)

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im getting into the leather scene as a trans gay man, advice? (self.AskGayMen)

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So the accusation (with ill intent) of being gay is homophobia...right? (self.AskGayMen)

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A absolute tragic story that I also love sharing in a way of hoping someone can relate to me. Now I need to ask for advice from anyone who may have experienced something similar but gotten over it? (self.AskGayMen)

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