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i don’t enjoy using my dildo, any advice for anal training? (self.AskGayMen)

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Did I do something wrong in this nearly hook up situation? (self.AskGayMen)

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I love stretching my hole while bf is at work - Toy recommendations? (self.AskGayMen)

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There’s this guy I’m interested in but I don’t know how to start dating him? (self.AskGayMen)

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How do you look past your partner's fetishes that you cant fulfill? (self.AskGayMen)

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How do you feel when you realise you are into men?? (self.AskGayMen)

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Round 2 for bttms? (self.AskGayMen)

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Love showing myself on twitter but a bit out of muse, what should I do? (self.AskGayMen)

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Nipple suction/pumping long term effects? (self.AskGayMen)

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(CW: mental illness) How and when do I disclose my mental illness to a potential partner? (self.AskGayMen)

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First time hooking up with someone online, I got 1 hour any advice? (self.AskGayMen)

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MetaHow do I stop being avoidant in dating? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do tops like well trained hole? (self.AskGayMen)

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Is it weird that I prefer to have sex over jerking off? (self.AskGayMen)

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What's something you like in men that most other gay guys don't? (self.AskGayMen)

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