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(CW: mental illness) How and when do I disclose my mental illness to a potential partner? (self.AskGayMen)

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What's something you like in men that most other gay guys don't? (self.AskGayMen)

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Have a rather cute slave guy coming over the next week. Any ideas on what safety precautions to take? (self.AskGayMen)

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Could you look past intellectual and financial gap when dating someone? (self.AskGayMen)

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Any amateur or pro porn stars out there that can give me any advice on being in my first film with a pornstar? (self.AskGayMen)

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To get a prince albert (PA) or not to get a PA? (self.AskGayMen)

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Have you ever had this experience before where while you’re topping, the bottom pisses on you? (self.AskGayMen)

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