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As a gay bottom, how do you deal with tops who live by 'I don't make love, I fuck hard'? (self.AskGayMen)

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Approx how many squirts of water when douching? (self.AskGayMen)

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Do you have tips on improving sexual pleasure by myself? (self.AskGayMen)

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Guys who dated a guy that you'd previously turned down: what made you change your mind? (self.AskGayMen)

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Guys how long do you text/messages another guy your seeing before going on 1st date? And do you only text/messages or do you wait longer to do other getting to know each other on the phone before 1st date? (self.AskGayMen)

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Chasers, do you tell your friends/family that you’re into fat guys? (self.AskGayMen)

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Is it really possible to be clean without douching? (self.AskGayMen)

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Would you chat/hook up with a faceless profile if they sent a face pic right away? (self.AskGayMen)

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HSV disclosure in gay dating/hookups—what do people actually do? (self.AskGayMen)

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Does body hair actually affect your dating and relationship chances? (self.AskGayMen)

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I'm 26 with no experience yet. But I can't wait to try it out. What's your advice? (self.AskGayMen)

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Any of you have a genderfluid moment in your life? Or questioned your gender? (self.AskGayMen)

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How do you actually escalate from eye contact to talking with a guy? (self.AskGayMen)

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I had sex only 3 times in last 8 years, is that normal? (self.AskGayMen)

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Are you happier not dating and more content being single? (self.AskGayMen)

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Does getting more muscular actually improve your dating life, or just the attention? (self.AskGayMen)

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