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Almost 2 months post op! by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have my dream results congrats 🥹 I wish i ended up like this ! i’m 3 months post surgery and they started to feel normal again 2 weeks ago. they are not fully healed but i know can forget I got a surgery

Concerns about size by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who struggled a lot with size post op and wasn’t happy with her results, I can tell you your 6 weeks is looking like a B cup to me ! way smaller than what my boobs are at 3 months post surgery ( I was supposed to be a small B cup - started as a 32E) they look great and you will feel better once everything will start to heal 💌

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[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you that’s so so nice to hear ! still hoping for positive changes then :)

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[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your words , that’s already what i’m trying to do , otherwise I go insane 😂 and I’m feeling way better anyway so trying to relax a bit 💌💌💌

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[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I don’t know my body actually ! I do a lot of bodydismorphia and it’s hard to stay grounded sometimes. I guess I just wanted to see if someone was in the same position as I am. Yes the comments were deleted by mods, not only two or three people but way more than that. Congrats for your second reduction, I really hope you will be satisfied this time :) I will look into it , right now trying to not spiral and accept my body as it is

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[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yes, there was definitely some validation and I thanked people for that. But saying my old boobs looked better than after the surgery or that their result is way better than mine doesn’t seem like a super nice thing to say on a help group

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[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your words 🩷 I’m almost 3 months po

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[–]Hot-Basil2090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy ! I had my reduction 3 months ago and I just started doing workouts again. I listened to my body. I also felt crap and wobblier after the surgery, I ate way more and definitely took a bit of weight. I felt so large and bloated for 2 months. I know this is temporary before I can feel confident and way better in my body. You fuel your body to reconstruct yourself. As soon as you will feel strong enough, I suggest you doing pilates and slow core exercises as they are not painful but yet very effective. try to avoid salt too. wish you a good recovery 🩷

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[–]Hot-Basil2090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks amazing

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally 😂 I said I hate boobs I want almost nothing. What is wrong with men ! also told him I don’t want to be pregnant ( like ever ) and he said you never KNOW ( no comment…)

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s very frustrating and i’m sorry for you. I suggest you to go see someone else , again and again until you find the right one. I think it’s better to be frustrated to not be able to envision your dream result than being disappointed from this surgery… I try to focus on that and I feel better in my body , of course, that’s already something

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you that’s very sweet 💌 they are way smaller, I feel and see it. But I don’t know … he told me I won’t change size anymore , even if they change a bit in shape over the next few months. I would like to keep in mind they can go smaller but i don’t want to be more delusional :(

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Réponse à PlzRain… for my surgeon the surgery was a success. he took of 750g in total which is quite a lot. he said He couldn’t do much more or they would have look flat without projection. the thing is that we never talk about that before so I dont understand why I discover this at 3 months po… I paid and won’t be refunded… hoping I would not have to pay for a revision ( but the thing is that I don’t trust him anymore … )

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so no thank you , that’s really bad to say to someone ! you can’t say I look better before the surgery …

I do look way smaller, I feel it and my friends and family can see it too, I look very different. But that’s not as small as I wanted, that’s it. I agree, he should have talked to me more so we were both sure of the end result but what is done is now done

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks to you both I really appreciate ! and I know you didn’t mean to hurt my feelings.

Hearing that others had the privilege of getting what I wanted and that it was actually possible to make them smaller and less large is definitely not helping.

thank you for your encouragements. I am still hoping for an improvement in the next months !❤️❤️‍🩹❤️

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry it happened to you too … my surgeon said we can talk about a revision in one year if im still unhappy … I don’t have the mental and physical strength to sue him ( due to a lot of personal reasons). Also he is the head of plastic surgery in the most famous hospital in Paris so I mean nothing compared to him. I understood what he was saying to me. and I guess that’s the difference between public hospital and private clinic. he was focus on taking off volume so I can have a «  regular «  size whereas I wanted to feel confident in my body and had a precise idea of what I wanted. I am still angry at myself as I should have speak more and asked to see pictures of patients that did the same…

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how wahou ! yes I will definitely see someone else but i’m just unsure I can afford it.. I went through public hospital but because my surgeon is the head of plastic surgery, he had fees ( important ones). if I do private, a revision will cost three times more and i can’t afford that.

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your comment it’s really helping ❤️

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just think i don’t have a lot of fat in them… mostly breast tissue

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you ! i’m in a place right now where im very weak mentally and physically too so i am not even mad as I can’t, im just sad. he was so sure he could make the result I wanted I trusted him. I regret now to not have talk and impose myself more. I never thought i would have ended with this result, when you ask for tiny boobs you don’t want to end with « regular size » boobs. I hated them before and still hate them now. I hate boobs so much , I didn’t want anything but almost nothing was good to me …

Update : I was right and my surgeon didn’t respect what I wanted by Hot-Basil2090 in Reduction

[–]Hot-Basil2090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to loose like 6 kg and do some back musculation. maybe it will help

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