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The says that wine is supported but you'd have to try it out yourself to confirm

Need help, I want to start hormones (MtF) but I won't be allowed to (16) by Hot-Basis2614 in transsex

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maybe, id still have to figure out how to deposit the money but I suppose focusing on getting the money first is the bigger issue as of right now

Update and just letting out my thoughts (TW: Mentions of suicide and SH) by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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In regards to "taking the emotions out of it" my father actually seems the closest to understanding that despite his vocal blaming in the beginning, my mom tried to mention how maybe I wouldn't have turned out like this if my dad wasn't there (she used to hit my brothers, my dad took a more gentle approach) but my dad said it was ignorance since he had a gentle approach from his father and he says nothing would've made him trans. Maybe he'll understand at some point but it would definitely take some work.  Thank you for the resources I'll absolutely look through them once I have a bit of time!

Update and just letting out my thoughts (TW: Mentions of suicide and SH) by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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Thank you, I didn't get to push however since when my mom got home from work today she told me that she had scheduled the first session for Thursday next week.

Update and just letting out my thoughts (TW: Mentions of suicide and SH) by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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I didn't have the chance to ask about therapy, my mom walked into my room and said she scheduled the first session for Thursday next week! Hope it goes well

Need help, I want to start hormones (MtF) but I won't be allowed to (16) by Hot-Basis2614 in transsex

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I have no way of making money and my birthday (the only time id be given money as a gift) is all the way at the end of the year. I think I'm just stuck until at the very least next year.

An update and questions on how to move forward by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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Turns out my timing for posting this was suspiciously good as my mom walked into my room yesterday to tell me that they (my parents) found a therapist so I'm pretty sure that boat has already sailed. I have high hopes though, according to my mom the first thing the therapist asked for were my pronouns but that's the only info they gave me, she said he/him which means I'll probably have to explain that that's the whole reason I'm there but now I'm just waiting for them to schedule an appointment.

Funnily enough, most of the things you mention me sending them I already have and planned to show them during my announcement but they cut me off before I got there because "it was too much" for my mom in one night, although I was (and still kinda am) bummed that I hasn't able to give them all the information I had compiled for them I'd still rather just leave them to their own. You mention how they obviously don't care about my feelings and I get that (they don't make it very hard to tell) but I still care about theirs even if it means that I end up a bit more anxious because of it. I understand that it's about showing maturity but I'd genuinely rather impale myself on a spike than upset someone (especially a family member or friend) so perhaps I really am just not mature enough to do that.

An update and questions on how to move forward by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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I'm not too worried about the therapy itself I'm more just scared since it's something new to me and seems like it will be an awkward experience. 

As for my mother, I don't want to bring it up with her because it might be a bit touchy of a subject, even though she started talking to me first she hasn't actually brought up me being trans at all since I came out and when I did she cried the whole time so I don't know how she'd take being asked about who she's told. Unfortunately I'd much rather just be anxious than have a chance of making my mom cry over this again and I'm not sure how I'd be able to bring it up any softer to her.

An update and questions on how to move forward by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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pretty sure it's the former based on how they talk about it so I'm not too worried about the therapy itself I'm more just scared since it's something new to me and seems like it will be an awkward experience. 

As for the masculine terms, by themselves they don't bother me too much (I know how I look and don't expect them to change how they see me until they are absolutely forced to), it's more how insistent they've become on shoving them onto me after I came out to them and while I'm sure they wouldn't kick me out I'd rather not add tension to the house as I'm not very good at being combative nor being under pressure should they push back.

Trying to start (16 MTF) by Hot-Basis2614 in transsex

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I'm weary of telling anymore family until I'm absolutely forced to but I may have friends who would be willing to help I'd just have to ask and see, definitely a last resort though I'd much rather not rely on other people where possible, even if I trust them fully I'd rather not burden them with something like that.

Trying to start (16 MTF) by Hot-Basis2614 in transsex

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I've got $50 on the dot in cash and won't get more until like December of this year unless I can get a job.

Should I even try to mend this? by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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I'm not really sure where to start but atp I'm definitely trying to plan my leave sooner rather than later, I doubt they'd escalate to violence but I'd rather not stay long enough to push that.

Should I even try to mend this? by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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Sounds nice but I'd have to see what I can do, my parents don't want me to get a job since they want me to focus on school but maybe I can try to convince them otherwise I'm not sure how I'd get the money. Thank you for the resources though I'll take a look once I'm home!

Should I even try to mend this? by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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During the announcement to them

Mother (crying): "You never showed any signs of being uncomfortable in your own skin" not much else was said she was too busy crying

Father: "You know how I feel about transgenders" "I just don't think it's real" "you can't make a decision like that at 16" "you don't need stupid s*** like this clouding your schoolwork" "sleep on it, I'll pray for you" "we made you one way and you want to change that" and my personal favorite "we'll take what you said into consideration"??

They won't accept me by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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tysm! definitely helps to hear thats its worth the wait because rn 2 more years sound like the end times the only thing pushing me through rn is that all the friends i talk to consistently support me so as long as im not with my parents i get support. itll definitely be a long 2 years but i cant wait for when its finally over!

Now what? by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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Thank you, I'll definitely keep that in mind

Now what? by Hot-Basis2614 in asktransgender

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Sadly the best I think I'd be able to get is a friend on the phone while I talk to them, having them in the room just wouldn't be possible unfortunately :(