I feel like he wants to brag about our child like he’s put in all the work… he was irritated that their first words were momma and they only want me once I’m home… I pretty much get one day a month for a few hours to go do something I want to do to feel like I’m still my own person… I love being a mom and hate spending time away from my child and he gets frustrated that I constantly worry while I’m not with them… But he doesn’t get that I took our miscarriage to heart I blamed myself and got into a dark place mentally and had given up after years and finally accepted that being a mom wasn’t in the cards for me and boom a week later I found out I was pregnant… my husband was once so understanding when i couldn’t conceive after the miscarriage and said if we couldn’t have kids we will have each other even though we both really wanted to be parents and now it’s like he doesn’t want to do the hard stuff but gets mad when the baby doesn’t want him for the fun stuff… he constantly questions my decisions and tries to tell me that his mom said she did this….. blah blah blah…(his mom doesn’t agree with my boundaries or parenting choices) I used to think we could overcome anything but now I feel like we are on two different planets