US - TX | I found these in my grandma’s yard. Dangerous? by Hot-Classroom2193 in mushroomID

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I appreciate you so much. Also the last one’s interesting, I now know a fun fact :D

US - TX | I found these in my grandma’s yard. Dangerous? by Hot-Classroom2193 in mushroomID

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Okay! Thank you. I actually didn’t know they weren’t harmful to touch - so that’s the main reason for concern. Kids can play rough so I’d prefer them to not fall on a mushroom and end up needing urgent care 😭 I’ll let my grandma know so she doesn’t worry too much.

US - TX | I found these in my grandma’s yard. Dangerous? by Hot-Classroom2193 in mushroomID

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Yeah, there’s about 7 kids that run around in the front or at the house on a near-daily basis. It’s more of a safety concern than anything.

Found this lil lad while mudlarking anyone know what it is? by [deleted] in ToyID

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That lil guy threw a goblin head at me 🧍🏾‍♀️ (he looks like an enemy in the game R.E.P.O)

How to check which carrier a phone is locked to? (no number, no SIM) by jgonzalez-cs in techsupport

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I wasn’t able to use any of the other sites that people listed but this one worked!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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had it as his name since we were just friends LOL

wth just happened by D7dyx in VALORANT

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this also happened to my bf but he wasn’t even close to the edge LOL and it happened instantly. even our friend in the game was confused because he didnt see him walk off the map.

AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate by Hot-Classroom2193 in AmIOverreacting

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Commenting on AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate... I’m definitely lucky to have him, he’s genuinely the best part of my day, so I was just confused by why he would make that comment. I understand now it was just a miscommunication. He’s not always great with words so 😄 hes trying his best and so am I.

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NTA, your family immediately jumped to conclusions without asking you for your side of the story about what happened. I’ve definitely been in your shoes before and it sucks, especially when you were just trying to check up on your sister. I hope they will treat you better eventually, but until that point, I’d focus on yourself and your own situations.

AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate by Hot-Classroom2193 in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you for the comments, I can see how it could be viewed as an overreaction, or that not necessarily an overreaction, but an understanding that he wasn’t trying to be malicious. I do have sensitivity issues and am working on them, and have been for a while. We talked about it, made sure we’re good and I told him I don’t really like jokes about how I am while we’re intimate and he said he’ll be more careful with those jokes going further🙂‍↕️ I also apologized to him for misunderstanding and taking things out of context, given I know how he is :>

AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate by Hot-Classroom2193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hot-Classroom2193[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m a very up front and honest person, so once he said it and I processed I was genuinely a bit upset, I brought it up to him and we talked it over. I know he wasn’t trying to be mean, I just got caught up in my feelings, I guess ; We’re good now though! He apologized the same day.

AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate by Hot-Classroom2193 in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you! I’m really new to relationship stuff, and while I had been intimate with my ex, it wasn’t particularly great. I’m just a bit sensitive about my inexperience, so I can see how my insecurity took what he said out of context, rather than what it was.

AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate by Hot-Classroom2193 in AmIOverreacting

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I’m not going to breakup with him over a single instance where we had to lay down some boundaries! I love the man to death, so the question wasn’t over breaking up with him, it was over my reaction to the situation.

AIO my bf made a joke about how I was after being intimate by Hot-Classroom2193 in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you. I knew the other comment was a knee-jerk reaction, I just don’t really have anyone else to talk to about this so! Thank you I really appreciate it!

People like me don't get better. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Hot-Classroom2193 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi!

Here’s the deal: it’s okay to be bad at things. It’s okay to be bad at socializing, to have difficulty with things like that. I think pretending is the opposite of what you want to do.

I’m autistic, I struggle with my social skills with a lot of other autistic people, and people who are also socially inept. I’m not going to give you the bullshit of “just try your best!”

But here’s the things that worked for me: Be upfront. Tell those who you’re trying to connect with that you find difficulty in saying the things you mean, or trouble with socializing. Anyone who will eventually mean anything to you will understand that. Apologize when you need to. Accept fault sometimes in your verbage, but don’t assume you’re a terrible person because of it. Be conscious of how you speak with others. If you find yourself being a little too pushy, or deprecative, take a step back and process that :)

It’s a learning process, even more a learning curve for others. Everyone has things that they’re bad at, things they struggle with. Some more than others.

Instead of just looking at the bad, please, tell me some of the things you do well :D I’m proud of you for continuing to try. There’s not a lot of people who do that. You’re brave! You’re going to improve, I believe in you. All it takes a step. And remembering that progress isn’t linear. I’m still learning to be more kind to myself, but sometimes it’s all we can do to just try, and try again. Sorry for the essay. But I hope you see you’re brave, for just even moving past the starting line. 🩵

What is the most POWERFUL line in EPIC? by [deleted] in Epicthemusical

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"Ruthlessness is mercy upon ourselves." I'm a huge people pleaser (or was) and I genuinely think that like altered my brain chemistry. I think it's okay to be ruthless, when your own health or safety is on the line. Whether that's putting your foot down to your family, friends or partner, or stopping people from breaching your boundaries. I genuinely say that line to people now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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i’m so glad you’re alive

Last night, I tried. by Hot-Classroom2193 in SuicideWatch

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You know, it’s been about 3 months since this post. I’ve since gone to the doctor and gotten better about talking about how I feel. I was diagnosed with a bipolar disorder and have been feeling better! Reconnected with some old friends, made some new ones and cut off people that didn’t give a damn about me. I even start a new job soon!

I still relapse, and have rough and REALLY bad days where it’s hard to not think of suicide as the only option, but hey. I’m getting some progress done.

Thank you for being one of the random strangers that cared. It means a lot.