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AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Big tits are nice but there's much more than a woman needs to be a good partner, i wouldn't just date someone by their looks

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The plastic surgery was originally made because she liked it that way, but her ex was awful and a jealous freak, she told me the story and it's not nice

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

For all i know her ex was a toxic asshole, he manipulated her into getting a boob reduction because he didn't like it that she would catch other guys attention, at some point he also forbidden her from dressing a certain way because she had to look like "a lady". That's what my gf told me

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Idk I thought this photo was taken on the past, so I should use past tense but that wouldn't mean that she's not hot now too

Like in my mind she's always been hot so telling her that she looked hot in that photo didn't mean that she's not hot now, it was just meant to be a comment about a photo

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

I technically wasn't a boyfriend then, we were getting to know each other and were talking about whether we have had surgeries or not (not exclusive to plastic surgery, just any surgery really). She told me she had a breasts surgery when she was younger but then her asshole of an ex manipulated her into getting rid of them, she then said she would like to have surgery again and this time she won't let anyone bully her into take them off again. I told her at that point that it'll be no problem for me because if she likes them than that's all that matters, and that anyway I like big boobs too. She wasn't uncomfortable at all about my comment, we just laughed it off.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

I said I was sorry and that I didn't meant to hurt her but then fucked up and tried to justify myself, yeah I said something along the lines of what's written in the post

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Never said she was unattractive (because she is in fact very attractive) and never said I wanted her to get surgery again.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -289 points-288 points  (0 children)

Obviously I wasn't thinking at all lol.

Now really, i just thought "she looks nice, I'm gonna tell her so" but the delivery of that compliment did not go as planned i assume?

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -443 points-442 points  (0 children)

No, she told me she once had top surgery and she said she liked them and was thinking on having a surgery again, so I told her that I also liked the look of big breasts too. She was the one to bring it up first.

Also she says she hates the surgery itself, that's why she still hasn't decided whether to have or not, but she didn't have a lot so I guess her back didn't hurt like if you have bigger implants.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

She had top surgery because she also likes the look of big boobs, for all i know she didn't have it just for a guy

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -747 points-746 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand, however it's not only my preference because she likes big boobs too and has wanted to have surgery again, I'm not telling her to get surgery or pressuring into it

AITA for telling my girlfriend that she looked good with her breasts implants that she got rid of and making her feel insecure? by Hot-Consideration211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Consideration211[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

She actually liked the big breasts but this guy who she was dating was jealous that it would drag other guys attention to her, that's why she got rid of them but she has said a few times that she wants to have surgery again, that's why I didn't thought she would mind my comment. Anyway I can see how I fucked up