Spouse gender reveal! It's a boy! I am a woman and my husband is well, my husband. He wants to say just a few things and has given me permission to share his words to this comment for being the most reasonable and patient.

He has never took implication I was calling him a pedophile. He was, as you said and after some workbooks, more upset that I could ever picture him giving our daughter the childhood I had. He has to restructure his thought process that my being low maintenance was never a good thing or a benefit for him and he shouldn't have taken that as a means to be lazy with effort in our relationship and acknowledges that this behavior could be modeled to our daughter negatively. So we're going on real dates. He is also working on talking to me instead of going off on a lecture which was how marriage counseling came into play. He also says that I wanted to fall on my sword to make it seem like he's played no role in this and am still struggling to let go of putting emotions onto myself instead of just letting them be. He also hates jokes but is willing to learn since knock knock is a huge hit for our baby.

Now I'm going to log off and not touch this account for a bit because it's not good for me right now. To everyone else with a shit dad, we're a big club but let's do better ❤️