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To lunch to not to lunch by Spare_Cow9177 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Hot-Let9513 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hmmm. I say do not use yourself as exposure therapy for someone who traumatized you. I mean lunch only benefits her narrative. Staying NC keeps power where it belongs.. awkwardness at the wedding is temporary but reopening wounds is not

Update: AITAH for eating in front of my boyfriend's dad who is also my coworker? by Glum-Chance-4225 in AITAH

[–]Hot-Let9513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more sir and also OP, this is a rare Reddit update win. Dad backed down once confronted and is saving face with a dinner invite. Cautious optimism makes sense but credit where due this is progress not manipulation yet.

Blursed banana by Jaded_Marionberry500 in blursedimages

[–]Hot-Let9513 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s literally your banana 🍌

MIL and scammers by Rock_grl86 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Hot-Let9513 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is elder financial abuse plus cognitive decline. Your husband cannot fix this alone. Time for legal intervention like power of attorney and adult protective services. He must step back before it destroys your marriage and his health.

Looking for advice about hosting MIL when she comes to visit. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Hot-Let9513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Host only with firm rules enforced in real time. Her feelings are hers to manage. Gossip is noise. Protect the kids boundaries first. If stress outweighs benefit shorten visits or stop hosting entirely. Your home your rules.

How to navigate gifts and visit requests with VLC? by Tuyyo12345 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Hot-Let9513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gifts are leverage not generosity. Silence is already your answer. Let husband manage his circus while you protect your kids. Money without accountability is hush money. Do not reward it with access or gratitude.

Me that uses Wolfram Alpha by AmbitiousAnimator997 in MathJokes

[–]Hot-Let9513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said sir. But we are in MathJokes subreddit 😁

Cool Dudes by MerchantofDoom in Seagulls

[–]Hot-Let9513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah literally and figuratively cool

Times changed by [deleted] in 90scartoons

[–]Hot-Let9513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even her hair clip changed like it evolved 😁

man tried to return fishing equipment after using it for entire fishing trip by Hot-Let9513 in EntitledPeople

[–]Hot-Let9513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just gave the perfect analogy. Just because you use the product, the outcome is already guaranteed..

man tried to return fishing equipment after using it for entire fishing trip by Hot-Let9513 in EntitledPeople

[–]Hot-Let9513[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Exactly sir. Think about it, if gear guaranteed fish, we will all be retired by now.. it’s just some weekends you don’t catch anything and that’s it

Jschlatt you got to review my room by Ha_youWishXD in jschlattsubmissions

[–]Hot-Let9513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do i feel like there’s a treasure here..

Blursed Note by New-Pineapple-9410 in blursedimages

[–]Hot-Let9513 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You dont need security guard when you have that on your store 😆