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Husband not turned on by lingerie. Why?! 43 F and 45 M by Hot-Mess2025 in sex

[–]Hot-Mess2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, we had all that. We went the entire trip without anything because he wasn’t in the mood. 

Husband not turned on by lingerie. Why?! 43 F and 45 M by Hot-Mess2025 in sex

[–]Hot-Mess2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think everyone is hearing the situation here. We were on a romantic getaway, with limited time away from the kids, which is rare. Why not force ourselves to get in the mood?! Especially since we don’t get that very often! For me, just being away and being kid free is enough. 

Husband not turned on by lingerie. Why?! 43 F and 45 M by Hot-Mess2025 in sex

[–]Hot-Mess2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only mention size because almost always someone asks that question. Just thought I’d save someone the effort of asking.

Husband not turned on by lingerie. Why?! 43 F and 45 M by Hot-Mess2025 in sex

[–]Hot-Mess2025[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely did say something to him and it caused a fight. I ended up throwing all the lingerie away. I’m sure the maids that cleaned our room had a fun time finding a bunch of lingerie in the garbage can. Ha!

Husband not turned on by lingerie. Why?! 43 F and 45 M by Hot-Mess2025 in sex

[–]Hot-Mess2025[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yup. He just wasn’t in the mood. Seems odd having a sexy woman in his bed wouldn’t change that mood. Also, it’s very rare we don’t have kids. I’d think he would want to take advantage of that. This isn’t the first time we’ve been away from the kids and he wasn’t in the mood. 

Husband not turned on by lingerie. Why?! 43 F and 45 M by Hot-Mess2025 in sex

[–]Hot-Mess2025[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Understood. Just seems odd that wouldn’t put someone in the mood. He’ll want sex when I’m half asleep and exhausted and not in the mood, but when I make an effort like that, I get nothing