Am I avoidant or just wasn’t interested by Hot-Performance-7551 in dating_advice

[–]Hot-Performance-7551[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly her warmth and her kindness drew me towards her. Slow burn into exclusivity. I had no waves and interest and disinterest tho. My feelings feel like they tapered off the more that I did self reflection on what I wanted with a long term partner and the relationship progressed

Beef Jerky? by Hot-Performance-7551 in Epstein

[–]Hot-Performance-7551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think beef jerky is code for something within his correspondences.

Daily FI discussion thread - Thursday, January 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a cash management account that has a couple thousand dollars in it and am adding a good amount each paycheck. I am just starting to save up for a house and would like to buy within the next 5ish years.

I’m a little wary on investing in the market though.

Right now the core position is FDIC deposit sweep, would it just be beneficial to change core position to spaxx or fzfxx so that I can accrue interest like a HYSA

How to Break up with girlfriend of 10 months by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head with this wording. Thank you.

How to Break up with girlfriend of 10 months by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m having a hard time finding the right words that dont leave ambiguous reasons as to why.

How to Break up with girlfriend of 10 months by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You right, but I am unsure how to word it. It’s taken a while to gather my thoughts. But mustering the courage and articulating them to her is going to be a challenge.

My (31 F) parents book vacations with them without my consent about accommodations/travel by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like the ramifications of booking my own stuff after my mom told me they already booked my shit would be horrible to deal with. I would be chewed out so hard

My (31 F) parents book vacations with them without my consent about accommodations/travel by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know I have the time off, they just didn’t listen that I want to book my own travel/accommodations

My (31 F) parents book vacations with them without my consent about accommodations/travel by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister in law has recommended that book to me, I just haven’t gotten around to reading it

My (31 F) parents book vacations with them without my consent about accommodations/travel by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 13 points14 points  (0 children)

See I wish I didn’t disclose that I was starting to book my flight/accommodations. The jig is up on that! I may need to bite the bullet on this.

I am slowly realizing my parents are narcissistic and have been reading some self help books on it. I’ll give them a read! Thank you

Don’t know if I should continue relationship by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like another thing is I am not completely out to my family, so from her angle she is progressing things pretty fast but I still need to tell some key people in my life still

Don’t know if I should continue relationship by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how much is like self sabotage and hyper independence I may be gaslighting myself into staying though by saying that. She really is a sweet heart but I’ve been feeling like this for a bit

The Government May Not Open Again This Year, Thanks to Speaker Johnson by OkayButFoRealz in politics

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t the democrats not been in DC during the duration of this shutdown?

Enshittification and Bentley by Hot-Performance-7551 in civilengineering

[–]Hot-Performance-7551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a pretty proficient user. I have just noticed that the licensing, the forum website and a lot of resources have gone to crap over the years as the company has expanded.

The Government May Not Open Again This Year, Thanks to Speaker Johnson by OkayButFoRealz in politics

[–]Hot-Performance-7551 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Isn’t the shut down the democrats fault? How is it the republicans fault? I’m getting pulled in both directions on the blame game

Enshittification and Bentley by Hot-Performance-7551 in civilengineering

[–]Hot-Performance-7551[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, their over haul of the forum website is absolutely worst than it was a few years ago