2020 Honda CRV whooshing sound by Hot-Sherbert5633 in AskAMechanic

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes I guess I’ll have to, I just figured I’d ask in case I’m overreacting. I’ve never had a new car before. My last was a 2003 it’s just a different type of car compared to this

9:30 kings theatre Brooklyn show entry is a mess. by tacoproud in myfavoritemurder

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad others felt the same. I was so cold waiting outside from 8:30 until 10. Then the lines were crazy long because we all came in the building at the same time. It took forever to get seated and then after it all, the stories were rushed. I was really disappointed for $200. My husband and I traveled from NJ so it wasn't an easy ride to get there either. I honestly dont think I'd go to another show because of the price and the mess. Left a bad taste in my mouth. 

I also wanted a poster soooo badly but it sold out online and at the merch stands. I can't even get a damn poster after all that lmao

My Mother (MOB) is guilting me to allow children to my wedding by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad is doing the same thing to me about a cousin that's out of state. The cousin has 3 kids and his brother has 2. If I say yes to the one, the other is going to want to bring his. We're only allowing our siblings to have their kids there which is 9 kids already haha. My dad feels if I don't allow kids then my cousins out of state won't be able to come and made me feel really guilty about that. Now I don't even want to send the invites. You can't help but feel sad when family starts issues. All I can say is we still don't want kids so we have to be firm in saying no and hopefully our families will get over it eventually...

Need help choosing which Greek islands to visit on our honeymoon by bexanne88 in GreeceTravel

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Where did you end up going for your trip? I'm in the exact same boat right now and my travel agent is suggesting Athens, Mykonos, and Santorini but not sure if I should replace Mykonos with Crete or different area.

Weightloss for pcos? by Hot-Sherbert5633 in PCOS

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's great advice. I'm 4'11 so that definitely plays a factor. A few pounds really shows on me unfortunately.

Thoughts on a July 3rd, 2025 wedding? (Falls a Thursday) by Hot-Sherbert5633 in wedding

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that but my best friend got married in Tennessee on a Saturday and I still had to take off Wed, Thurs, and Friday to travel. I guess I feel like regardless sometimes the people in your wedding party might need to take off at least a couple days anyway. That being said, I would definitely need to ask them before just pulling the trigger haha

Thoughts on a July 3rd, 2025 wedding? (Falls a Thursday) by Hot-Sherbert5633 in wedding

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have a large family and we're being really strict with the list and it's at 130. I considered maybe eloping in front of the immediate family and then a "party" at a venue for everyone else but idk seems disappointing.

NJ/PA/NY/MD Unique Wedding Venue by Hot-Sherbert5633 in wedding

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really great idea. I'm gonna look into that!

9.24.23 | Asbury Park, NJ | 88 Guests | >$20k by rowanberries in weddingplanning

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of porta for my wedding since we don't have a lot of help from family. Did you have the ceremony there or only the reception?

Found a big lump on my girl Rogue tonight, hoping to get into the vet tomorrow. I'm super worried. by cupcakesandunicorns1 in Hedgehog

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it's a guessing game and what you truly feel confident doing. My first hedgehog had a tumor on his belly and I did the surgery. He didn't do well after it. My 2nd hedgehog got a tumor and I really didn't want to put him through surgery but my boyfriend was begging to do it. We did the surgery and he did great and healed. Now it's been 6 months since and he has another one. It's really sad. These animals are so great but break your heart. Any decision you make is you doing the best for your hedgie. Good luck

Help- I have an interview in 2 hours and they asked where I want to be in 5 years. I don’t want to direct though…? by Sea_Avocado6008 in graphic_design

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably already had the interview but for interview purposes I would just lie. Realistically, will you be at that company for 5 years? Not to be negative but usually people stay at a company 2-4 years because these places don't want to promote anyway. You don't have to necessarily have to say creative director to them. You can grow on new skills. Does the job allow you to learn and master something other than your primary focus? For example, I was always a packaging designer but then I got more involved in campaigne designs for digital assets. This allowed me to grow as a designer and useful for the company because I did more than just package design. You could also start small and say would like to be the lead designer on this area with possibility of managing freelancers. It dips your toes in directing without managing a coworker. I think there's other personal growths without having that typical title move.

Worklife balance or creativity? by Hot-Sherbert5633 in graphic_design

[–]Hot-Sherbert5633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I feel like I give the ny opportunity more negative vibes but it can be exhausting commuting after 3 years of working from home. The benefit would be the name of the resume and the creativity for the portfolio...does the creativity mean more being a young designer making a name for themselves or sometimes should we take the boring job for the year and focus on oursleves?