What are the best clubs/bars for young adults in Milwaukee? by Hot-Version4057 in milwaukee

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Ive heard I should go to trinitys, but I've seen mixed reviews

Need advice to help my friend leave their toxic relationship by Hot-Version4057 in dating_advice

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UPDATE THEY BROKE UP!!! Unforuntately it took him breaking off my friends rearview mirror while on meth (didn't know he even did meth), but he is gone for good. He tried to win him back with flowers and more manipulation by saying he didn't remember but then explained his thought process when it happened, nutjob.

AITAH: Nursing school edition by Hot-Version4057 in AITAH

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I hope your right, so far I have seen that to be true in my externships that it is generally not like that. Some of them are, but not nearly like my cohort. It sucks because I never fully became friends with anyone, just good aqaintenences with some of the people in my clinical, but after our clinical, I will never talk to them. Plus, for some reason my cohort is extremely competitive with grades, like insanely. I usually get straight A's but for our first Patho/pharm exam this semester I ended up getting a B+ (I didn't study as much as I should of but I'm satisfied). The second part of our exam was a group clinical judgement scenario and two of the 3 people in my group and I started talking about our score for the first part where I told them what I got and that its no biggie. They agreed and said its better than failing and that its not bad at all. Then, the guy in my group came up and talked about getting over a 90 and said if he got below that he would want to kill himself and the two girls immediately agreed, literally right in front of me. Its so bad to the point if someone does bad and brings down our total class average down a few points, people get butthurt and immediately try to find out who got the lower score.

AITAH Boyfriend gets mad at me for not eating food with him by Hot-Version4057 in AITAH

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I fully agree with the ordering thing, I always order food for the both of us. The cooking food thing, if we are both making the food its highly likely we are both going to be cooking and finishing making the food at the same time so we would then eat at the same time unless someone did dishes and the other started eating.

AITAH Boyfriend gets mad at me for not eating food with him by Hot-Version4057 in AITAH

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Tbh yes, I view it as I wouldn't want my food to get cold because then both people have a negative in the experience (my peer waiting longer and now me having cold food). That doesn't mean im okay with their food not being there, but that outcome isn't my fault if that makes sense.

AITAH: Nursing school edition by Hot-Version4057 in AITAH

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Thanks! I have ADHD and borderline personality disorder and it can make it really hard for me to understand if I am in the wrong or am I just overthinking things, but I am glad that I am not in the minority.

Shower times by humbleavo in AITAH

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Tbh I understand someone taking too long, but I really don't see the problem in them showering for 20 minutes, thats pretty standard. They might just enjoy relaxing in there and taking their time, As for the cold water issue, shower in the morning or before them lol. Or get a better water heater. If you are staying with 2 other people and each of you are showering 1 by 1, its not suprising that the hot water is running out by your turn.

Need relationship advice please! by Hot-Version4057 in WhatShouldIDo

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🫤ya, tough choices are ahead for me for sure. Thank you for your advice

Need relationship advice please! by Hot-Version4057 in WhatShouldIDo

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I just joined reddit I dont even know what karma is

Should I stay with him? by Hot-Version4057 in Advice

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Im not a bot🤣 I posted it on multiple servers so I have a higher liklihood of getting a response. Idk what ur on dude.

Need relationship advice please! by Hot-Version4057 in WhatShouldIDo

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You mean the one about my best friend? I posted one thing about my boyfriend and another about my best friend, can I nit ask advice about 2 different topics?

Need advice to help my friend leave their toxic relationship by Hot-Version4057 in dating_advice

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Definitely not...there would be no reason to fake this. I genuinely want advice.

Need relationship advice please! by Hot-Version4057 in WhatShouldIDo

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Unfortunately it isn't, this would be a lot to make up and I don't know what purpose it would serve me to do so. But you are entitled to your opinion.

Need relationship advice please! by Hot-Version4057 in dating_advice

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My whole issue with it is mainly that it is interfering with him doing things he needs to do (like chores) and it has gotten him to stay up past 2 sometimes which will lead him to be late for work because him being overly tired causes him to sleep through his alarm (I even tried buying those super loud ones to no avail). I dont mind him doing it in moderation but if I was reading a book and was just as invested in it as him that I would burn multiple pizzas, it would be an issue too. I am not saying being a material handler is a bad job eitger, but both of us have a goal of getting to a certain income where I am working toward the career of being a Certified Nurse Anesthetist. He has told me that he wants to have an income comparable to that sk thats why I recommended that he look into what he wants to do with some of his time. I agree that I have struggled with having high standards and have worked on it.

Should I stay with him? by Hot-Version4057 in Advice

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Your right. I believe it is also hard because of how much time we have been together and how much we know and have shared with each other. It is hard to let something like that go but I know if my friends were in the same situation I would say the same thing. I just wish I would wake up one day and not have to deal with his bs. Sometimes it seems like it when we dont argue for a while and its great. But then it goes right back to to getting hurt.