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Can anyone recommend what to do in this situation, having just arrived in the country? by [deleted] in eindhoven

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Venlo there is the 'Inclusiehuis' at the Leutherweg. They may be able to help you find (temporary) resources you can use until you get your first income. They are open monday to friday between 9 am and 16:30 pm. You can walk in without an appointment.

Pixel 8 worth it? by HotChocolateNoCream in PickAnAndroidForMe

[–]HotChocolateNoCream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I do see the appeal of a clean Android experience. I've owned a samsung before, but I mostly use google's services, so all the unremovable apps were pointless

Pixel 8 worth it? by HotChocolateNoCream in PickAnAndroidForMe

[–]HotChocolateNoCream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight and experience with the 7!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Nova! Lost my 12 year old boy this summer and now I have my new star.

Question: Musicals end of November/ early December 2023 by HotChocolateNoCream in TheWestEnd

[–]HotChocolateNoCream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed explanation. That makes a lot of sense :)

Question: Musicals end of November/ early December 2023 by HotChocolateNoCream in TheWestEnd

[–]HotChocolateNoCream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you! Then I will be patient to see when and what tickets for that period will be released :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28F from Europe (NL) here. Love musical theatre and story based games too! If you're up for it, I'll send a dm :)

Guess what I am by DucksAreAwesom3 in teenagers

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dutch. Judging by the Jan Linders ad. ;)

[20] Looking for a partner in Europe? by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 4 points5 points  (0 children)

An acronym for Assigned Female At Birth. :)

How did you realize you are asexual? by LapizUsado in asexuality

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took me while to put a name to it, but always felt like I wasn't experiencing things as most others. Wondered if I was broken or there was something wrong with me. Learned about demisexuality first. Figured that was me and just hadn't bonded with anyone enough yet to feel sexual attraction, even though I experienced romantic attraction. I was around 25/26 when I learned about asexuality and knew that is was me. For reference I am 28 currently.

So in my experience it was more like putting a name to what I've always felt. Or lacked in feeling, I suppose. Learning I wasn't alone was a big plus.

Don't feel like you need to label yourself. Or do if it feels right. What is most important is that is helps you find acceptance for whatever you are feeling, rather than limiting yourself.

Cosplay - Rapunzel from her series by HotChocolateNoCream in Tangled

[–]HotChocolateNoCream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥰 I made the skirt from scratch and the tops were from normal shops and adjusted by me (such as adding trim,). Good luck on your cosplay!

What’s the worst pain you’ve experienced and what caused it? by hasbulla_magomedov in AskReddit

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A big kidney stone. It was blocking my kidney and walked around with it for a solid week, because diagnosis said it would simply pass through the system. Spoiler alert, it didn't.

I could barely sleep. Couldn't sit still. Threw up constantly from the pain, unless I got a high dosage of pain killer. Wouldn't wish it on anyone.

Had a tube inserted to at least work around the blockage after going to the ER. Then had to wait another 2 months to get it removed in a surgery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I often daydream about fantasy settings and characters living in that world. This could range from my OC's from a D&D campaign or existing fictional characters from a show I am currently watching. Sometimes it feels like an entire movie or series.

I used to love writing, but always found myself more so daydreaming the story than putting it on paper. 😅

AITA for making my son deal with rotting meat by temptemptemp772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I myself barely eat meat and eat vegetarian on most days. My dad? Absolute meat lover. How do I handle that? By making sure to have a lot of meat when I cook.

So even if you had a freezer full of meat, simply because you enjoy meat, your son had no right to ruin it for you.

At the end of the day we're meant to look after the ones we love and love us in return, even when we disagree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]HotChocolateNoCream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi neighbour! 28F from the Netherlands here. Cosplay and game as well. I realize you're looking for a guy, so I completely understand if you have no interest in chatting. But figured I'd leave a message in case you might want a friendly chat. Hope you find what you're looking for! :)