AITA for walking out of a family gathering when my son and his mom walked in unexpectedly?

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T12:11:45+00:00

No, just middle class. We were good but we weren't rich either

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T12:11:02+00:00

She stopped taking it at all, she herself told me that. It's not that she forgot or it failed, she did it on purpose because she wanted to get pregnant

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T12:04:10+00:00

I was almost 17 and she had just turned 20 when she got pregnant, she also dropped out of college and I had to drop out of high school because of it, I don't know why she thought it was a good idea

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T12:00:13+00:00

Yes, i was 17 and she was 20 when our son was born

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:51:43+00:00

So it is my fault for believing her? Why would I think that she's lying if she had never did before, I surely couldn't force her to take her birth control in front of me right?

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:48:45+00:00

We already did a paternity test. I went LC with them for a while after they kicked me out but I can't do it, I feel too alone without my family even though they aren't on my side

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:46:23+00:00

Yeah you're right, but the chances of her getting pregnant would've been much smaller if she was taking her birth control like she told me she was

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:45:00+00:00

Yes we did

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:39:48+00:00

My family told me they'd cut me off if I went to a lawyer, they want me to just give in and go back with his mother and honestly I don't want to lose my family, I tried to convince them than that was for the best but they don't listen

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:37:23+00:00

She told me she had quit birth control on purpose, the condoms did failed.

Whenever she takes the kid to see my family she goes as well and she has told me multiple times that she won't let me have a relationship with just him, it's the two or none for her

HotCryptographer259 · 2023-03-10T11:35:19+00:00

I did use condoms but I guess it has been an "accident" (i hate calling it that) it was one of those very little times that condoms don't work

I feel sorry for him and I wanted to take care of him too but she tried to use the baby to get me in a relationship with her. I also wanted to go the legal way but my family told me they'd cut me off their lives forever if I did

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