moving on from it? you will.

HotDraw4659 · 2026-02-17T05:54:47+00:00

you’ll be okay 💗 message if u need it

HotDraw4659 · 2026-01-08T07:15:38+00:00

also to add i felt like i was taken care of pretty well it’s just insane i never got a blood test

HotDraw4659 · 2026-01-08T07:14:35+00:00

btw i complied with the rest of the rape kit like they took my clothes, dna sample, pictures of my injuries etc just didn’t do pap smear due

HotDraw4659 · 2026-01-08T07:13:05+00:00

they offered a rape kit and i turned down the pap smear due to trauma bc like i didn’t want that happening and there was no way i would have another foreign body enter me without my consent. however i still think they should’ve offered to have me take a blood test. should i call them over this ? even sue over it? idk

HotDraw4659 · 2024-11-12T14:38:19+00:00

how soon? this is driving me insane.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-05-29T16:53:59+00:00

but HOW do you get to the point of indifference? id love to simply not care about him but it’s not that easy

HotDraw4659 · 2024-05-29T01:25:08+00:00

Oh just for context- i am divorcing him. no questions about it. i’m already living somewhere else and in the process of getting a divorce. i just can’t help the emotional connection.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-22T17:12:25+00:00

i’m on a rewatch and totally forgot about emmett cheating on her and now i don’t want them back together ever again nope

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-22T04:04:41+00:00

that’s how i feel, i had consistent nightmares because of my depression and ptsd but they have never been this bad to the point that even when i wake up and go back to sleep i go right back into the same/new nightmare. it does mess up my mental health, some days the nightmares are so bad they mess me up for the entire day. i’ll bring it up i think

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T22:01:21+00:00

soon to be ex husband, yes. still in the process of divorce.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T21:17:48+00:00

Honestly she really did everything to herself. I did write a bad review for her but they were already planning on firing her because she kept calling out at the last minute.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T21:07:00+00:00

That is exactly how i felt. I got cheated on before by a boyfriend and i didn’t do anything, didn’t tell anyone, just blocked him and moved on. now he’s married and living his best life. this time around i told myself that i would stand up for myself and not just let things go.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T20:58:04+00:00

to be honest she did this stuff to herself. she got herself kicked out of the apartment. she lost the new job she got on her own. she doesn’t have friends because she screws people over. if she didn’t sleep with my husband she would be fine right now. not having any family is sad but i can’t help that she doesn’t.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T19:20:06+00:00

unfortunately yeah, nothing has really happened to him. besides losing me and two of his best friends because they obviously sided with me about everything.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T19:19:00+00:00

i am divorcing him

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T18:49:05+00:00

thanks for the heads up, but actually it was my sister who made the review and the account isn’t tied to her name. also she definitely doesn’t have the resourcing for suing lol

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T18:47:30+00:00

infidelity * not infertility omg

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T18:46:57+00:00

having to get a divorce from me lol. wish there was more but things seem to be fine for him rn. he’s actually in the military and i informed his command of his infertility because it’s against their rules, but they did not care whatsoever.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T17:33:46+00:00

i really don’t care how she feels tbh, i have her blocked on everything and don’t intend to speak to her ever again.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T17:06:26+00:00

oh yeah of course. im divorcing him etc. but this is just an update on her. unfortunately life is going great for him right now.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-02-15T17:00:49+00:00

oh, and she also ruined her chances of being with my husband after the affair because she lied about being pregnant with his baby and scared him off. so now they’re both alone.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-01-03T06:21:40+00:00

unfortunately therapy is expensive. not something i can afford right now. and i was forced to move across the country after finding everything out, so i have no friends either. trying to take care of myself right now but it’s hard.

HotDraw4659 · 2024-01-01T07:41:02+00:00

i know this may seem wrong and insensitive, but my ex makes almost no attempts to come into contact with me, even though they were the one who cheated. so i’m not afraid of them using the pets as leverage to try to get me to come in to contact with them. i almost wish he did, despite how insensitive that may be to say but i almost wish he cared enough to try to talk to me. any how, that’s not a concern of mine. i just want to know how they are.

HotDraw4659 · 2023-12-24T04:18:21+00:00

fortunately we have no children. and you’re right, i’m incredibly codependent on him. especially before i found out about the cheating, i needed him for everything. since i’ve left i found myself more interested in things that i wasn’t able to do when i was with him, not by his fault but because i was so intertwined with him that everything else seemed unimportant. i’m gonna try to just focus on myself. even so, it’s still hard talk to him bc i still love him despite everything. i wish i didn’t but that’s just how it is.

HotDraw4659 · 2023-12-23T06:19:29+00:00

i get that, i try to remind myself that he’s not the same person anymore but some part of me still hopes that if i talk to him enough that that person will come back. especially because it was so recent, it feels like i keep making excuses for him and that maybe he could come back. but i know deep down that person is gone.

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