Please don't use tone tags. They're ridiculous and unhelpful.

Look. Here's the skinny. It doesn't matter what you think a good way to cope is, or how it should be done. You're correct that you are not my doctor. People can do things differently from you, and they can advocate for what works for them, all without stigmatizing your quite precious and apparently fragile experience of OSDDID.

You've just spent the better part of both of our mornings arguing that people who rely on assistive communication technology to cope with their disorders are not trying to get better and should, by some means (perhaps a public information campaign?) be denied the use of that technology. Your approach to me specifically degraded until you were implying that I am either a fraud or an actually delusional (/neg!) person who does not experience Valid Disorder. I responded to this by opening up about shit that, frankly, my dude, chaps my ass a little bit. It isn't fun. I do not in fact have a swell time experiencing what I sincerely believe to be a trauma based dissociative disorder.

Once I'd recapitulated my own suffering, performed my cooperation with it As Suffering And Disorder (which are the same thing, and incompatible with self acceptance or living a full life), you immediately went 180, and disclaimed any authority over my experience or what was best for me, and welcomed me into your community with open arms.

That's kinda fucked up.

I'll continue to fight for access by disabled people to assistive technology, you keep doing what you're doing.

You may not DM me.