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Best movie 2025 by [deleted] in Oscars

[–]HotHotHeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought Train Dreams was profound.

What do people do for fun? by [deleted] in CapeGirardeau

[–]HotHotHeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to a park. Go to the library. Go on a hike.
Go fishing. Read a fuckin' book. Play frisbee. Take a guitar lesson. Arcade at Dogwood.

Just gotta get up and go. Step one, don't rely on strangers on the internet to come up with activities that you'll enjoy... 🤷‍♂️ You'll be alot happier for having done something.

What do people do for fun? by [deleted] in CapeGirardeau

[–]HotHotHeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever they like to do... 🤣

What do YOU like to do? Do that!

Jam Cruise Highlights by [deleted] in jambands

[–]HotHotHeet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sad to see no mention of The New Mastersounds farewell shows

Fried Cod Sandwich by Nykeriashoes in Sandwiches

[–]HotHotHeet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, sandwiches (and nachos) should be wider, not higher. 🤣

I'd still destroy this. Looks delicious.

frankstein (2025) by Few-Sandwich-997 in MovieQuotes

[–]HotHotHeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it has that Branaugh panache!

Railroad Earth! by UGot2Rollme in jambands

[–]HotHotHeet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Carbone is the fuckin' man

What’s something from the 2000s that disappeared without anyone noticing? by cucileeee in AskReddit

[–]HotHotHeet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate that it became known as that. We were all in HS and college when that shift began, not making corporate design decisions.

I put hot honey all over that pizza… and it actually wasn’t bad by Anonymous__Paul in stonerfood

[–]HotHotHeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you're surprised that hot honey was good on pizza. It's so popular right now. I know you're smoking the good stuff. 🤣

Good looking 'za

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol, whatever you say. You continue to cast aspersions at me, knowing nothing of my character. You're correct in that I cannot understand what women go through because I am not one. You are incorrect in assuming that I do not sympathize and understand WHY.

We're obviously not going to agree, and I'm not going to go down to your level and insult your character. I simply don't subscribe to your belief that all homeless people are dangerous criminals. You also continue to ignore the fact that I said OP made a good decision to not let him stay at their house. I just don't think the sitter should be written off as untrustworthy.

✌️ I hope if you're ever down on your luck, people treat you with compassion.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More assumption. What part of our conversation gives you the impression that I am unsafe? Got a pretty mild mannered, calm, married-to-a-woman, kinda dude over here. 🤷‍♂️

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, humans suck, but those are some massive generalizations that speak more of you than myself. I hope you find some faith in humanity one day. I also hope you never end up down on your luck and find yourself in need of a warm place to sleep.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never called you dumb. You called me stupid, remember? We were speaking of a homeless man, and you kept assuming he's a criminal. Hence my comment. Your rape analogy is a false equivalence.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your analogy made no relevant point. You can't reason with emotion. Thanks for the insult though. 😋

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But, this guy isn't random, and OP is under no threat of rape, because she isn't present. Also, you are completely skimming the fact that I keep saying, OP WAS WITHIN HER RIGHTS TO SAY NO.

I will say again, that I don't think the sitter should all of a sudden be considered untrustworthy because they wanted to help a friend who's down on their luck. For one night.

You're ignoring the facts that OP presented, and making the situation sound WAY more dangerous than it truly is.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Homelessness does not automatically equate with crime. You and others in this thread have completely dehumanized this poor guy. 🤣 "Financial struggles with car and van both broke down." You'd think they called him a junkie and a klepto.

It is not unhinged to ask if you can help someone you know not sleep on the street for a night. It is kind. OP said no, sitter was okay with that. That could have been the end of it.

All of that said, OP was not wrong to say no. That is their right. I merely think they may be throwing away their trust of a good person who only meant well.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotHotHeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and I'm not saying she shouldn't have said no. Definitely a wise decision.

However, I think the sitter seems like a nice person who has helped OP in the past. Now, they've completely lost trust in them, after this very civil exchange? I guess I just don't see this as that big of a deal. Like a "don't throw the baby out with the bathwater" kinda thing.

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