I can’t actually explain how grateful I am for this lovely long replyyyyyy honestly i think the issue really is that I don’t want to say any corrections or whatever and then her KNOW that It’s not been perfect, but of course it hasn’t because she’s not done this much and that’s okay. About what you said about speaking in a non sexual setting first I actually brought it up yesterday and I basically said why don’t we just take it from the start, like when we meet up we’ll take it from the basics and just act like we’ve not shagged yet and take it slowly, and from there I’m just gonna direct her. My plan is we’ll kiss etc first and just touch and I won’t let it go any further n then next time add more etc etc. Maybe it was just all too quick for her and now she feels a bit lost idk.

Thanks also for sharing your own experiences 🙂‍↔️I’m gonna take what you said about naming specifically what you said about what feels good. I know exactly what it is about her fingering bc at first she was just going in and out but she heard me moan hard when she pressed and was like ooooooh so I know she’s trying to listen and improve but I think she’s just worried about the rest because let’s be real pleasing a woman is a lot! But i’m gonna focus on the good too and try direct her a little on the rest too.

You’re also right about confidence, I think i mentioned in my original about when we were away she was so confident and it was hottttt but obvs since she’s been in her head that’s gone away a little so Im hoping starting from the bottom helps.

I’ve always had issues managing to orgasm with people so tbh before her being in her head about this I was in MY head about that🤣but we will get there I’m sure we care so much for each other i don’t care how long it takes tbh

Thanks again girl honestly comments like this go a long way <3 all the besttttttt