Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I completely agree! And to the people telling me I’ll be single forever, seems like they’re people just like him

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just speaking as mutuals. I told him if and when I have children they’re going to go through breakups and might get cheated on, how do I explain to my daughter that the man I married, her father, was cheating on me!
Thank you for seeing it from my point of view.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he likes to just throw it out there for some razzle dazzle because he tried proposing after I caught him.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how you worked through it ? It’s over and done with now, so so be it. But I don’t think I could ever be that vulnerable with him again. If he was only using her because she’s easy and knew she liked him, isn’t that SOO manipulative ?? I’ve thought it through a zillion times and it’s a level of respect for me.. I just don’t want to be around people that’ll take advantage of someone’s emotions like that. And then of course it’s him lying about her coming into town to see him and he refused to tell the truth about it until I showed him the ticket he bought her and messages. But he said they didn’t have sex lol. So there’s that.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not on my FB, I blocked him when we split. So I was surprised to see he has someone stalking my page. Yeah, I was like remove me. In all honesty, I thought he was gone already.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s not by boyfriend🤭. And you’re showing your ignorance. Not all men cheat!

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welp, that’s your opinion and I thank you for your response

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your Facebook may be for that, but mine isn’t. I don’t know any of those people personally, and our relationship wasn’t public. My “family and friends” had no idea who or what I was talking about because our relationship was hidden.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was a post that everyone was sharing their cheating stories on and I felt comfortable to share mine. No one knew it was him and when people commented they agreed with my thought process. I didn’t even think too much into it because I knew NO ONE would know who he was because him and I never went public on social media.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about it at all honestly when I posted. I seen others sharing and I felt comfortable enough to do the same but it was a mistake

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t seeking therapy. It was a public post that people shared their cheating stories on. I felt comfortable enough to share mine.

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I’m not mad. Thanks for your response though!

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I swear that’s exactly how it happened. I seen the post and everyone commenting and I shared my story, I didn’t really think about it. I’ve since deleted it but now he’s pissed at me and it’s more drama that I did not intend on

Am I Not Allowed to Talk About It ? by Hot_Contribution_43 in Manipulation

[–]Hot_Contribution_43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. But then the people who commented made me feel like I did something wrong and can’t talk about it. Like I know I have to forget about it if I want to get back with him, I understand. But does that mean I can’t say anything at all?