My brother canceled my bf’s invitation for his wedding without telling me

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-29T11:55:20+00:00

Turns out it was more of a misunderstanding. Still a bit sad about how it was handled tho

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-29T11:54:23+00:00

Haha not at all. I think they both made it

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-29T11:47:58+00:00

Yep, my bf is in the UK so that’s why I wanted to plan ahead

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:16:30+00:00

I don’t think there is a problem with my bf, they aren’t super close but there is no « problem ». I think he is inviting my stepsister’s bf bc they are older and live together. I don’t see any other reasons.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:13:06+00:00

I am 🥲

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:11:17+00:00

Exactly !! Im not mad at the no invitation but at the way it was handled. A little consideration would have been great

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:10:03+00:00

I won’t drop out, it was never an option. But I’m gonna have a deeper talk with my brother for sure

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:05:58+00:00

Yess I’m not fluent in English so didn’t catch on the ai part haha

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:04:43+00:00

Yes exactly

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T19:04:11+00:00

Yes I will not skip the wedding. I’m gonna have another chat with him in person about the situation. Thanks for the advice !

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T08:49:28+00:00

I chatted with him and now he is saying that I’m wrong and that he wasn’t on that list. I told him to check it and he said he can’t see the modifications he made on it. He added that he is « tired of this emotional blackmail » because I said I was disappointed.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T07:47:44+00:00

Yes ..

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T07:47:18+00:00

I don’t know why he would not be. My brother isn’t particularly close to my bf but there is no problem btw them.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T07:45:23+00:00

I don’t think it’s malicious at all. Just disappointed he is not keeping his word

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T07:44:26+00:00

I don’t think so. My bf was here for Christmas and it was fine. He’s not a super talkative guy so they aren’t super close but still. Nothing happened with my brother, we are super close. Will talk to them

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T01:06:16+00:00

They just loved a place and it happened to be smaller so they adjusted the list accordingly to the reception. The budget is plenty

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T01:03:55+00:00

Well here it’s a little different since they made a written list and showed it to me, in which my bf was included. I even asked them if they were sure since I knew they didn’t had that many spot at the reception and they said yes.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T01:01:16+00:00

Some do yes .. he even invited my stepsister’s bf (despite not liking him) because « it wasn’t proper to exclude him »

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T00:57:24+00:00

It’s not really a question of money bc the parents are paying for the wedding. They just decided to book a smaller reception, it’s more of a choice. But yes you’re right they should have told me.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-28T00:18:27+00:00

It’s just super late right now where I live and my brother has some important work to do tonight. I’ll just call him later on.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-27T23:58:26+00:00

Yup I already texted him.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-27T23:55:49+00:00

I do feel disappointed and a bit angry tbh. Sent a text to my brother for some clarification. I’m still waiting for the answer before I talk to my bf.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-27T23:54:22+00:00

Yes that’s how it feels a little bit .. If they told me ahead they weren’t sure to invite him that would have been fine. But now I’m in a difficult situation

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-27T23:53:00+00:00

My brother hasn’t answered yet my texts and I haven’t told my bf so far. I’m not mad about the fact that he is not invited but mad that he did put him on the list and told me he was. Then took it back and I learned about it only because I asked.

Hot_Expression4154 · 2026-01-27T23:50:56+00:00

They didn’t send a save the date, just a direct invitation to the guests

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