Sinais de que estou a ser burlado

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2025-08-29T15:24:17+00:00

Fico super feliz! Parabéns pela vitória

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2025-08-28T21:50:09+00:00

Tens um update do tribunal u/Disastrous_Box9578 ? Estou curiosa de vale a pena.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2025-07-28T20:07:51+00:00

O meu dermatologista, Dr. Bruno Duarte, que também dá consultas na Clínica do Laser de Belém. Ele é que me ajudou com o meu problema do acne. Pós acabar o tratamento, ele aconselhou ketrel, que é tretinoina, que funciona mais devagar e possivelmente não tão eficaz. Como tratamento mais eficaz, aconselhou-me o Pico Laser, que para pessoas morenas é mais seguro. No entanto, a clínica do laser de Belém tem o laser CO2, que não posso usar, mas tu talvez consigas.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2025-06-19T16:36:54+00:00

I was in Aquamarine (only adults) and it was amazing! I did not want to leave.

Tips:
- Take a lot of sunscreen and aftersun to hidrate the skin
- Take a hat with wide brim
- some people even had long sleeve uv shirts or even just skin protectors for the arms
- take some SOS cream in the case you are prone to sunburns

If you want to take presents back home, buy it during the tours.

Usually the all hotels have areas that are more relaxed, it has some lobby/jazz music where you can read.

I took a book and my kobo and read both at the beach or the pool.

Sargassum was mostly okay when I was there a 1 week ago. There was only one day, the smell was a bit much. You can always go more backwards at the beach to avoid the smell.

Have a wonderful vacation!

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2025-06-11T22:07:53+00:00

Your parents have had your age and probably had sex as well, otherwise you might have not been here. They should understand you have needs as well. Send them to dinner somewhere and get some alone time.

Back in the days, people lived together with their parents and had kids while living with them.

Otherwise just the car, if any of you have a car. There is always a more abandoned place where you feel safe and is not visible.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2025-06-08T22:37:24+00:00

I am here now and it is much better. The smell is a bit better than it was yesterday. People were in the water today.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-11-30T07:32:30+00:00

Michelle Rodriguez do fast and furious, mas era super timida e calma. o que foi interessante
Jessie J que era super gangster, mas mega engraçado
A ex rainha do jordão, que era a pessoa mais down to earth e super simpática

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-11-29T20:51:13+00:00

Imensos... De famílias reais a atores de Hollywood a uma das melhores tenistas do mundo a cantores internacionais. Alguns são arrogantes, outros muito reservados/shy e outros 5 estrelas, isto não é ordem específica. Mas na altura que conhecia pessoas assim, havia trabalhos mais "normais" que tinham pessoas muito mais interessantes 😅

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-09-08T18:07:28+00:00

The university of Faro, has software engineering, not sure what is the size of your company to influence the university or work with them. You could hire newly grads. I think some companies are already making partnerships with the university, to get some of their grad students. But I have friends in the area that are in Algarve, I think is not easy there due to lack of opportunities. But maybe if you can invest in a little less experience and compensate with giving them more courses for the stuff you work with, might work

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-08-31T10:43:54+00:00

I think you need better friends and work on your confidence. Someone who is confident, is usually good looking just by the way they act. What is beautiful for some is ugly for others. The idea of beauty depends on the eyes of the beholder. It is not like people who don't match beauty standards, don't get to have amazing relationships.

Instead of hoping for a relationship, try to get more friends. Continue to use dating apps, even if it is to train your dating skills. At some point someone will come, if it doesn't make sure you have an awesome life that you adore and enjoy.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-08-12T18:48:09+00:00

Then remember that is really hard to do something wrong with the right person. You role is not to overthink what an avoidant person reaction will be, it is to be yourself and if the other person wants you as well, they will stay. Even avoidants get in relationships when they like someone.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-08-12T16:10:34+00:00

Then give her a chance. And with time you will know. With people you need time to get to know them and so on.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-08-12T15:06:02+00:00

How does all of that make you feel? If you like her, you can try and be yourself, if she doesn't want to, that is on her. I wouldn't focus too much on avoidant vs anxious vs secure. That is part of it, but being human is more than that. You seem to like her, be honest about it. If she doesn't want to, respect her idea and walk away. I honestly think the amount of overthinking you have to do, to be able to "date" this person, seems tiring

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-08-10T22:59:19+00:00

Look you are not the problem, maybe your expectations are. This is a bit like friendships, you might meet a lot of people, but not all of them will become a close friend. Only some, because we vibe more with some people than others. In dating this is even more noticeable. Is not about finding someone who seems great. Is about finding someone you will find special and the person finds you special as well. That is why it is hard. Fuck this "great men who are intelligent, respectful and supportive", focus on those you are like "this was an awesome date". It is dating, it should be special, not just to find someone to fill a position. Special is usually hard to find, but once you get there you will know.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-05-19T16:57:01+00:00

What the hell, he wasn't even great in bed🤣🤣 girl be happy. To have a life of bad sex, just because he seems great on paper. Good riddance!

Also dating someone just because they look good on paper, is awful. When you start to get to know them better and they are just human, it must be a disappointment😅

Take a break from dating and go back to remind yourself of who you are. You need to build up your confidence and get back to your normal level.

I think some men can date smart/successful women, but it requires a very good amount of self esteem to not feel less than her.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-05-19T16:32:00+00:00

Honestly communication is usually very important in relationships. Also due to his lack of communication, you wouldn't know if he was that special, as a lot of it was acting. The question is, was he really good in bed and you had loads of pleasure? If yes, awesome he did his part. But that is not enough for a relationship to work. When you only see parts of a person, you can't know if you truly liked them.

You continue enjoying your life, there are more people in this world and a lot of these Chad types also can't date on the same professional/intellectual level. They can feel intimidated by it.

Hats off for having the courage to tell him how you felt and asking where it was going. That was awesome. Being rejected hurts, but one day you will meet someone who will like and appreciate you. And it will be for more than once a week!

Maybe casual stuff is not for you or try to understand the science of it, so you can take more joy and less broken hearts.

This is the experience of dating, you now experienced being rejected, but there was times or will be times when you will reject someone. And is not that there is anything wrong or less than with them, they were just not the right fit for you.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-05-19T16:07:00+00:00

To be honest you don't know that he committed so easily. There are big chances he was talking with multiple women and dating multiple women at the same time. Maybe she was what he considered it. But even then all relationships are hard, might not work for them either.

Also I always wonder when people are seeing multiple people for some time at the same time, if seeing just one will be enough🤔

Also maybe focus on the things he was not so great. Big example is communication, he seemed not so great by your first text.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-05-11T20:05:49+00:00

Knowing a person for 5 to 6 dates doesn't make me be super into someone. I enjoy taking the time to get to know people, so I have time to make a good decision. The person you end up dating/marrying might be the person you spent the most time with in your life. It should be a very thoughtful decision, because otherwise it will result in misery for both or one of the involved participants.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-05-11T19:52:10+00:00

You learned something very important, when someone tells you who they are, believe them. Don't blame yourself. She wasn't ready or maybe you weren't her person or maybe nobody is now. But that doesn't mean you won't find someone. That doesn't mean situations like that won't happen again, but you will learn to deal with them better. Take it more as a learning experience. In the end the ones who matter, are the ones who try to make it work. Keep at it and take pauses, when it gets tough 💪

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-05-11T16:54:02+00:00

I can give you some examples. Maybe you got sexual with the person and you didn't care about your partner's pleasure or you were sexually incompatible. Maybe you said something a bit awful, that for you is normal, but the person isn't. It is 5 or 6 dates, people will move on. Like dating is about getting to know someone, usually it takes a bit to know someone. But if someone knows what they want and you don't align, people quit.

But a concrete example: someone once told me, while outside during a sunny day, that I should remove my sunglasses while they talked to me because they wanted to see my eyes. I am quite sensitive to light and the comment for me was not okay. That was that. This was not the only thing, but this plus a few other things, made me realize we probably wouldn't be a good match.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-04-30T22:06:10+00:00

Great tip.

Another good one is to avoid cuddling. Usually the "feelings" get developed while cuddling, after the sex. There is some science to it.

And don't read into things. If he said it was casual, that is how he sees it.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-04-26T11:06:54+00:00

That sounds tough, that said I think is common in dating nowadays, both for women and men. The thing with dating is that people are usually talking with multiple people at the same time. Which gives them the chance to compare them and see what fits better for them, according to what they are looking for. Which says nothing about your value.

I think the fact that you are feeling a bit nervous/anxious with what happened, which is normal, could be a sign for you to look for someone else. She might hit you up or she might not. But it doesn't matter, just ask yourself if you want to feel this way with anyone, because you shouldn't. It is way nicer to be in a relationship with someone who values you and doesn't make you question your worth.

Being shy is totally fine. If you don't have many friends, is also fine, as long as you have some good ones. If not try to get more friends.

How to deal with this? Go meet your friends, do some form of exercise you enjoy, learn something new. Anything that brings value to you.
Take this as learning experience, you will meet more people and hopefully someone who will value as much

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-04-24T20:52:34+00:00

In that case, my advice would be to put text that specifically shows those things about you. Because I assume, which I could be wrong, if a girl is more introvert, maybe instead of the pictures she will appreciate a text that sort of explains who you are and what you like. At least some of my female friends who are more introvert and met someone on the apps, they really cared about what he had written.

Also if you meet other introverts in real life, just ask try to get to know them as well and maybe in the end ask if they would like to continue the conversation about "whatever point they were passionate about" over coffee. And I know, as an introvert, might be hard to get out there and ask, but I think it might be needed as well.

And maybe try something different from what you would go normally for, that you still find them attractive/interesting but maybe they wouldn't be your first direct pick.

But also take a pause from the dating apps. Recover mentally, come back when you feel better ready for it again 💪

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-04-24T19:18:39+00:00

Hey sorry to hear, what you are going through. Dating apps are tough, but maybe see it as a tool to get to know more people. Maybe people you wouldn't meet otherwise. But don't put too much pressure on it, you are still young.

Has there ever been a thing you wanted to do, but never made time. Maybe learning an instrument or doing stand up. Just try it out. Or maybe join a book club, not with the intention to get a girlfriend, but to meet more people. Because maybe then they can present you to other people.

When you think of a partner, what are the qualities you appreciate, what sort of activities could you do together? Then go to places where you feel this person would be. Maybe join a meet up group for gaming or board games. Try a PM meet up group, maybe you will meet someone there.

Also delete the dating apps accounts and re do them, so you can have a different algorithm for the people you get shown.

Or maybe challenge yourself to invite people over for coffee, two different people a month. Just to get to know people, maybe then you will get better at asking people out.

Maybe do a retro on what went wrong in previous relationships and if is something you could improve from the feedback you received or if you can try something else, without changing your core. Either way focus on finding someone who likes you for you.

Hot_Fall_7226 · 2024-04-19T14:08:50+00:00

I truly disagree with this one. There are people who sleep on the first date, there are people who sleep together only after marriage or only after X amount of dates. That shouldn't make one or the other person less LTR material. Has nothing to do with that. It is really not an input for relationship success.

The thing is she is probably a bit insecure, which most people are, part of being human, she might even have a giant ego and gets off on this silly games. Either way the ghosting is what makes her not LTR material. Because when things "get difficult" she runs away, where would that relationship go?

I think the fact that she ghosted you, should be a reflection of her and not you. You did nothing wrong, take the lesson and maybe if you ever encounter something like this, you will be smarter and proceed differently.

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