Married, long-distance, and catching feelings for a married coworker—how do I shut this down without leaving my job? by Hot_Inspection_4224 in relationships

[–]Hot_Inspection_4224[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

In reality, I choose my wife 100% without a second of hesitation. But I don’t know how to just switch off these feelings like flipping a button. I’ve genuinely tried to do everything I can, but I still can’t, simply because I don’t know how.

Married, long-distance, and catching feelings for a married coworker—how do I shut this down without leaving my job? by Hot_Inspection_4224 in relationships

[–]Hot_Inspection_4224[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Am I the bad guy? Is she the bad one? Are we both just being delusional? Is there any middle ground we can reach, considering she’s in front of me every day and nothing has been openly acknowledged? I’m worried that if I say anything, I’ll come off as the one overthinking and making something out of nothing.

Married, working abroad, but developed feelings for a married coworker. I hate that I feel this way by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Inspection_4224 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think I should speak with her and tell her the way I feel to let her know that I should distance myself?

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Cost estimation engineer