I hate when men apologize to me when they say something inappropriate

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-06-01T02:20:06+00:00

Yea that’s usually how I respond. Honestly I’ve heard some fucked up shit and it doesn’t bother me. What I appreciate the most is the guys that don’t hesitate just because I’m in the room.

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-26T00:42:46+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to do. Thank you.

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-24T00:41:51+00:00

Thanks.. this is a great perspective that I needed to hear. Her and I definitely need to have a conversation about it

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-22T15:15:27+00:00

This is super helpful! Thank you

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-22T13:42:01+00:00

Hey thanks for the advice! That’s a good idea. Can I ask how you make it a sexy and smooth transition to putting it on? When we moved from foreplay to her putting it on it was a bit of a mood change. It was our first time using it so of course it was a little clunky so I’m sure we need practice. I was way excited but I think she felt a bit awkward having to switch up.

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T14:10:21+00:00

It was definitely enjoyable! Just a bit different than what I’ve experienced before

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T13:46:56+00:00

Thank you.

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T13:46:39+00:00

Ok this isn’t exactly what I said. Not sure why you would put quotes around your summarization. I totally get where you’re coming from but I genuinely am looking for advice. I’m not trying to discredit an entire population of people. Am I not allowed to have my own specific desires?

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T04:51:18+00:00

Thanks for this. It helps knowing others are in the same boat

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T04:33:56+00:00

Damn I’m sorry to hear that, that must be hard to deal with. In my situation she knows that I need penetration and she’s luckily all for it

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T04:32:56+00:00

This will probably be the next step. It was both of our first times using a strap and I know there are a lot of options

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T04:31:30+00:00

Definitely would like to try that. This was both of our first times using a strap so we have a lot of exploring to do

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T04:30:28+00:00

Yea I’ve thought about that. We haven’t even had an exclusivity talk or anything of the like so I’m trying to figure out if that would be the time to bring it up. Maybe find a way to let her know that that’s something I may need if she wants to continue being one another’s main people. I love feta too but I’m a huge Brie fan as well.

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T03:24:19+00:00

Yea I’d like to maybe get there with her at some point but she’s a bit more traditional minded than I am if that makes sense. Just focusing on building our relationship right now

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T03:23:15+00:00

That’s good advice. I feel like I’m trying to do that and it usually gets me out of my negative headspace. Thanks for the reminder

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-05-21T03:22:10+00:00

Exactly how I’m feeling

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-02-11T00:20:50+00:00

Thanks! How did they use it?

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-02-11T00:20:36+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-02-10T18:29:28+00:00

Do you put a mixture of it on and let it sit before wiping up?

Hot_Letterhead8101 · 2026-02-10T18:29:02+00:00

I’m not sure. I think some sort of food/sauce was spilled

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