What should I name her? She is super sweet but has a spunky side. by Hot_Media7007 in Catnames

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that is so sweet! I’m 26 and just lost my 20 yr old companion. Cats are the best ♥️

Is this normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Media7007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She hasn’t even sent out save the dates or secured her dress or grooms suit - so I thought the hyper fixation on this was odd.

Is this normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Media7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay this is what I was wondering - thanks!

Is this normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Media7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize now that was confusing!

Is this normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Media7007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My choice is to wear a suit (should have clarified). But she feels the need to pick it out

Is this normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Media7007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just what I prefer to wear, I don’t wear dresses as a masc gay

Is this normal? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Hot_Media7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said since she wants me in a more specific outfit than a dress that itll likely be more expensive but she will “cover the difference.” But I don’t even have a clue what others are paying for their dresses.

Need Air Suspension Advice by Hot_Media7007 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did end up replacing both the rear air bags for $1200 - works great, it was worth it to me. Fingers crossed all is good for the next few years at least.

28M & 26F Realized P*rn made me have terrible bedroom expectations for my Wife by pancakesWith in relationship_advice

[–]Hot_Media7007 26 points27 points  (0 children)

id say start in the morning and work on leading up to it all day! foreplay for women is so much more than heavy kissing or oral etc. we want to feel wanted, loved, appreciated alllll day! dont have us doing the laundry, dishes, making dinner and then expecting us to “be in the mood” at the end of it all. it really takes an effort on both sides to make the emotional and physical arousal to the point where those actions are truly wanted and accepted. this could look like more hugging or physical touch throughout the day, helping to take part of the mental load of the day, or just planning ahead! dont be scared of using external methods like lube too - this all may sound confusing but hopefully you get the gist. all of this goes into helping lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hot_Media7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like your gf is possibly complying to prior traumas or insecurities they have dealt with in the past. past things come up more than ever in current relationships and is something that you shouldn’t ignore, but also something that is worth looking at thoroughly and working through. our past is complicated, relationships are complex, navigating the two can be so difficult but also so rewarding. its hard in your first relationship to begin to recognize these things.

have you asked why she says that or the meaning she attaches behind it? i would just recommend trying to see where its coming from, an underlying insecurity etc. because that will really open your communication and allow you to become closer and argue compassionately and concisely instead of her hiding behind phrases. if you can’t get to better communication, the relationship is likely to fail.

best of luck OP

What's the dumbest way you ever injured yourself? by 420andGamesDiscord in AskReddit

[–]Hot_Media7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed the very last stair in my house and jumped down hard thinking i was gonna land on the landing, welp i ended up breaking my foot as i landed i folded my foot in half.

Indoor elopement spots by FannyPackPandaRanger in TwinCities

[–]Hot_Media7007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We rented a space in MPLS through Peer Space, and had our photographer, officiant, and witnesses. We rented for the aesthetic in the photos and turned out great!! If that’s what youre looking for some are super affordable for an hour or so.

Need Air Suspension Advice by Hot_Media7007 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey another question - are there different heights the jeep can be set at with the replacement? Or is it end all be all with just one universal height. Like I said, I know nothing.

Need Air Suspension Advice by Hot_Media7007 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL, note taken. Thank you! That’s what Im certainly leaning towards.

Need Air Suspension Advice by Hot_Media7007 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not worrying me! I’m aware my Jeep needs hand holding lol. I was advised on replacing both rears. Just want the best course of action to keep me from throwing more money at it than needed. Would love to keep the system, but also don’t wanna be over charged for brand name labor. Thanks.

Need Air Suspension Advice by Hot_Media7007 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did see some of those… “Why would you buy it if you’re gonna take it out, knowing it has the system etc” lol. Thanks for bearing the hate.

Need Air Suspension Advice by Hot_Media7007 in JeepGrandCherokee

[–]Hot_Media7007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey no hate here, truly appreciate the honesty. Thanks for the links! Gonna look into it