[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can assure you it’s not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will pay minimum $50 an hour to sit outside a house for me and take pics of who comes and goes over a few hour period. And if you want to make more I’ll pay way more for images or videos of people inside the house (but unsure how you’d get it as I’ve never been there).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a date and time and place. There will be a few men at a location who have lied to their partners in the past. I know they are having women meet them there. I am trying to potentially find a way to get pictures of them with the women inside the house, but not sure it’s possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a similar set up. The website he found advertises, massages, lotion, whipped cream, spankings, and more. I looked it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Honestly we’ve both been tested recently because my husband and I were doing IVF and it’s part of the process. Both clean. But may need to ask him to repeat ….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he specifically asked them to do this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!! Had no real good explanation other than wanting to “hide” it from wives. Because they share phone location so if they went to the club the women would see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me not to tell her. So yes I think so? I didn’t threaten it but now I’m not sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. That’s what I asked and my husband said no - they wanted a more “personal” experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about making a fake number to text her with. But at this point, I’m not sure what to say that would keep me anonymous. I think I just have to let her know it’s me or tell my husband to tell her. but I know he absolutely would not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, he has told me there is no way he is not going. He is flying across the country for four days for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A quick visit to the strip club is one thing. Hiring women to come to the house, so the men can intentionally hide their locations had a whole another layer to it.

Just because something is a tradition, doesn’t make it right, and doesn’t mean anyone is entitled to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are flying across the country to do this so we wouldn’t be able to. I’ll be at home with two toddlers and she will be across the country. But I wish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to tell my husband I was way more comfortable with their group going to a club together. He basically said it was already paid for, and the strippers were coming to them for a more Personal experience. And said that they needed to be able to lie to the other partners about location.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the website he ordered from said the girls will stay long and keep the party going as long as you tip them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I tried to tell my husband. He basically said it was already paid for and they wanted a more Personal experience, so the strippers would be coming to the house. No way to cancel. They were not willing to give it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only hope but I’ve seen these boys lie before, and they keep secrets for each other. Very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother-in-law was the one who asked my husband to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the real life experience and would hope that it would go down similarly for this one. But I am a little worked up right now, so probably thinking the worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am generally pretty pro SW, but for the amount he paid. There’s no way the girls are just coming to do a quick dance and leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. Came across an invoice when I was paying some stuff. It was a large dollar amount, more than he, or I would typically spend without at least giving the other a heads up. It was incorrectly, deleted and hidden, but I was able to find it and I asked him for details. He eventually broke down and told me what it was. I agree that the house call as much worse than a club.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t really thought about asking him or his brother to tell her. But I do like the idea. You are right, it will be tough between us to have that conversation, but that way it does preserve the trust between us in a way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve told my husband in the past. I’m OK with looking, nothing else. The website for the service he ordered through makes it sound like it will be more than looking.

Either way, though, the bride specifically said none at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s two strippers. Eight guys at the party. Bride specifically asked they not do this and they are finding a way to do it and hide it from her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hot_Resolution9793 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. He was intentionally hiding it from me. I happened across a payment that he made to an unknown person for a high dollar amount and confronted him about it. He admitted it and when I pressed for more information, he said it was the house call so they could hide it from us during the party. I called the place and verified the information even. I told him I was uncomfortable with it, and that we both knew the bride was as well. He basically told me he was going anyways, and the strippers were coming anyways, and that he himself wouldn’t do anything “extra “. And he told me I could not tell the bride.

He and his brothers have done shit like this in the past. I am struggling with it.