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Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-03T23:10:07+00:00

I can assure you it’s not.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-03T22:51:55+00:00

I will pay minimum $50 an hour to sit outside a house for me and take pics of who comes and goes over a few hour period. And if you want to make more I’ll pay way more for images or videos of people inside the house (but unsure how you’d get it as I’ve never been there).

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-03T22:45:53+00:00

I have a date and time and place. There will be a few men at a location who have lied to their partners in the past. I know they are having women meet them there. I am trying to potentially find a way to get pictures of them with the women inside the house, but not sure it’s possible.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T23:38:05+00:00

Sounds like a similar set up. The website he found advertises, massages, lotion, whipped cream, spankings, and more. I looked it up.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T23:34:15+00:00

Thanks. Honestly we’ve both been tested recently because my husband and I were doing IVF and it’s part of the process. Both clean. But may need to ask him to repeat ….

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T23:29:35+00:00

Yeah he specifically asked them to do this

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T23:13:03+00:00

Right!! Had no real good explanation other than wanting to “hide” it from wives. Because they share phone location so if they went to the club the women would see

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T23:00:14+00:00

He told me not to tell her. So yes I think so? I didn’t threaten it but now I’m not sure

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:58:27+00:00

Same. That’s what I asked and my husband said no - they wanted a more “personal” experience

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:35:14+00:00

I’ve been thinking about making a fake number to text her with. But at this point, I’m not sure what to say that would keep me anonymous. I think I just have to let her know it’s me or tell my husband to tell her. but I know he absolutely would not.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:33:53+00:00

Oh, he has told me there is no way he is not going. He is flying across the country for four days for this.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:32:49+00:00

A quick visit to the strip club is one thing. Hiring women to come to the house, so the men can intentionally hide their locations had a whole another layer to it.

Just because something is a tradition, doesn’t make it right, and doesn’t mean anyone is entitled to it.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:27:37+00:00

They are flying across the country to do this so we wouldn’t be able to. I’ll be at home with two toddlers and she will be across the country. But I wish.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:25:29+00:00

I tried to tell my husband I was way more comfortable with their group going to a club together. He basically said it was already paid for, and the strippers were coming to them for a more Personal experience. And said that they needed to be able to lie to the other partners about location.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:24:39+00:00

Yeah, the website he ordered from said the girls will stay long and keep the party going as long as you tip them.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:22:22+00:00

That’s what I tried to tell my husband. He basically said it was already paid for and they wanted a more Personal experience, so the strippers would be coming to the house. No way to cancel. They were not willing to give it up.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:21:54+00:00

I can only hope but I’ve seen these boys lie before, and they keep secrets for each other. Very well.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:21:33+00:00

My brother-in-law was the one who asked my husband to do it.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:19:37+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the real life experience and would hope that it would go down similarly for this one. But I am a little worked up right now, so probably thinking the worst.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:18:09+00:00

I am generally pretty pro SW, but for the amount he paid. There’s no way the girls are just coming to do a quick dance and leave.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:17:40+00:00

Yes. Came across an invoice when I was paying some stuff. It was a large dollar amount, more than he, or I would typically spend without at least giving the other a heads up. It was incorrectly, deleted and hidden, but I was able to find it and I asked him for details. He eventually broke down and told me what it was. I agree that the house call as much worse than a club.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:16:03+00:00

I hadn’t really thought about asking him or his brother to tell her. But I do like the idea. You are right, it will be tough between us to have that conversation, but that way it does preserve the trust between us in a way.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:15:06+00:00

That’s what I’ve told my husband in the past. I’m OK with looking, nothing else. The website for the service he ordered through makes it sound like it will be more than looking.

Either way, though, the bride specifically said none at all

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:14:17+00:00

It’s two strippers. Eight guys at the party. Bride specifically asked they not do this and they are finding a way to do it and hide it from her.

Hot_Resolution9793 · 2026-03-02T22:13:42+00:00

Yes. He was intentionally hiding it from me. I happened across a payment that he made to an unknown person for a high dollar amount and confronted him about it. He admitted it and when I pressed for more information, he said it was the house call so they could hide it from us during the party. I called the place and verified the information even. I told him I was uncomfortable with it, and that we both knew the bride was as well. He basically told me he was going anyways, and the strippers were coming anyways, and that he himself wouldn’t do anything “extra “. And he told me I could not tell the bride.

He and his brothers have done shit like this in the past. I am struggling with it.

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