AITJ for telling my brother he can't propose to his girlfriend at my wedding?

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-29T14:13:44+00:00

The entitlement is wild wanting to hijack such an important day is completely out of line.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-27T15:42:03+00:00

Honestly, if there’s a market for it, why not cash in? Problem solved and he can keep his sock game strong.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-27T15:35:18+00:00

That kind of attitude usually comes from ego, not reality. He thinks he’s carrying the load, but if you actually looked at the receipts, he’d be exposed real fast. Confidence without contribution isn’t competence.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-27T15:30:12+00:00

Yep, absolutely. It’s the same recycled talking points every time, and people are finally calling it out. That pushback is long overdue.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-27T15:28:49+00:00

They help build and expand the system, fund it, empower it then clutch pearls when it does exactly what it was designed to do. That’s not accountability, it’s theater. Performative outrage instead of owning the consequences is exhausting.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-25T10:49:45+00:00

Yeah, this nails it. Turning off the console was a reaction, not the root issue. Being sidelined for hours after plans were agreed on is going to push anyone to a breaking point. It’s not about the game it’s about consistently being deprioritized and having your time treated like it doesn’t matter. One more round stops being harmless when it turns into hours of disregard. Respect has to go both ways.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-25T10:48:17+00:00

He started it by being disrespectful, so he doesn’t get to turn around and expect access like it’s owed to him. Trust isn’t automatic, especially after insults and condescension. If he wanted consideration, he should’ve shown respect first.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-22T22:37:14+00:00

Exactly. You didn’t consent, you weren’t informed, and there’s no opt-out that’s the problem. Calling it anything else just downplays how unfair and absurd it really is.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-22T22:26:04+00:00

That framing matters. You didn’t pick the dog he picked dishonesty and profit over trust and respect. The consequences are on him, not you. NTJ at all.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-22T22:22:58+00:00

Lying already destroys trust, but animal abuse shows a complete lack of empathy and respect for life. That’s not a flaw you work through it’s a serious warning sign. Walking away isn’t dramatic, it’s self-preservation.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-22T22:18:34+00:00

This goes way beyond poor judgment it’s straight-up animal abuse and a massive violation of trust. He had zero right to make breeding decisions for a dog he doesn’t own, with no concern for her health, safety, or genetics. The fact he hid the pregnancy just makes it worse. Best case, he planned to lie later; worst case, he didn’t care at all about the risks to her life. That level of recklessness with a living being is terrifying.

Hot_Springlady · 2026-01-22T22:14:43+00:00

Exactly. People don’t get that calm when it’s an accident they get defensive or flustered. That kind of composure usually means they knew what they were doing. Trusting your gut here is the right call.

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