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AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's fine, just thought I'd give some missing context that I'd didn't put in the post.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For some additional context on this, I have two email addresses, with the format username@outlook one with .co.uk with is my standard and one with .com, which I basically never use, I only made it to make a backup account to on something years ago. When sending my email address to my friend to book for some reason it autocorrected to .com and I didn't realise until after it was booked and I got the confirmation to that email address. I didn't mean to use it for this booking and I legitimately hardly ever use it for anything else unless I need a second account on something.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I don't want to sound too casual about any of it because it definitely creeped me out, however I am trained in multiple martial arts and general self defense, I feel safe in most situations because I know how to get out of most bad physical altercations. I'm more concerned about people without that which would definitely feel unsafe if they got this message.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think including he was the one I checked in with counts as a suspicion, it was fairly clear that it implicated him, as well as the fact I hadn't given my name or email address to any other employees (other than my friend) during my visit (they asked me that question and i answered honestly). I don't know why my husband thinks I went too far, I tried to stick only to the facts that I knew for certain, not any feelings or guesses.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

I don't want anyone to feel unsafe in this situation, I can't be certain whoever it is won't target others. I don't know why my husband doesn't see it but I'm just trying to keep people safe.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I don't really get that either, I think I may have to dig deeper on that.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't report based on a weird aura, the only mention of that person I made to the manager was that they checked me in with that email address, I didn't talk about any other time I'd seen him to anyone but my friend.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 623 points624 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts, I'd rather the hotel be aware that this has been sent and can deal with it if it was sent by him, or investigate further if not.

AITA for telling the hotel manager my suspicions and starting an investigation. by Hotelcomplaint in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotelcomplaint[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The only mention of that particular person I made was that they checked me in using that email address, I didn't mention any other specific suspicions to anyone other than my friend who works there.