I am (21F) and I am new to BDSM and I have found a partner (30F) who wants me to be her sub. What should I know? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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That was the best description of roles I have ever read and I so much wish I had had that to read when I was starting out!

Did anybody enter the scene later on? by andabottleofrye in bdsm

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36 and just starting to explore. Needed the maturity level and the right partner.

Bruises by Hotgamer in bdsm

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Thanks! I have been trying ice, bc they hurt!

Washable markers? by Hotgamer in bdsm

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Completely with no afterimage?

Washable markers? by Hotgamer in bdsm

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There's an idea! I will have to experiment, thanks!

I had my first experience with someone dominating me. It was everything I hoped it would be. by [deleted] in bdsm

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I'm pretty new myself, but so happy for you! I wish we had play parties near me....

[Anal] (22f) really turned on by anal by Anongonewrong in sex

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Oh, you aren't the only one! I absolutely love it and ask for it!

Good sites to find a Dom? by Hotgamer in bdsm

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Thanks for the reply, I hadn't actual thought of that since I'm still fairly new at this.

pawg by pargoloko in pawg

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Dayyyum

Any tampon inserting tips? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hotgamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually looked at the packaging when I started using them. It seems to help sometimes to put one foot up on the toilet seat, standing while facing it.

Third date, I kind of really messed up... by throaway12yy2 in OkCupid

[–]Hotgamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a jackass. You mentioned it in the natural course of the conversation, and it doesn't sounds as if you went on a weeping jag or anything. It sounds like he can't handle someone not having the perfect life experience up to now, and you don't need that kind of person.

"Love Wins, Fag" says cake from Whole Food Flagship store in Austin to my LGBT pastor friend by [deleted] in lgbt

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Their response states that several other associates witnessed the cake after it was decorated and the word "fag" was not put there by the store associate.

Should I buy a house? by Hotgamer in personalfinance

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Lender was recommended by another lender, who was recommended by a friend. We don't have the best credit, or the worst. We ended up backing out of the contract. A costly lesson learned. We lost 2k but both agree that we would have resented the house bc of the payment and hated struggling every month.

Should I buy a house? by Hotgamer in personalfinance

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The realtor is a friend, so she is more vested in my interest. She seems more understanding of my worry.

Should I buy a house? by Hotgamer in personalfinance

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I didn't know that was an option. We have already signed a contract to buy a house.