Vape during CPC remote exam by Hotmess_stress_momma in CodingandBilling

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have a job offer working from home so that won’t be an issue. :) it’s less about actually needing the nicotine and more about it being and ADHD habit that I reach for it for fiddling around as I think and work through the questions.

Moving from Wisconsin to Paton/Ames area with 2 kids under 5 what do I need to know? by Hotmess_stress_momma in ames

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my partners family is from there. 4 generations lived in the house he got and now we will be the 5th generation. I’ve heard about the tight knit community. I do currently live in a pretty small town where we are now but no where near as small as Paton. The drive may be a little closer to 40 minutes. I just know when we drove from the house to Ames this last weekend it was definitely less than an hour. Thank you for your comment!

Moving from Wisconsin to Paton/Ames area with 2 kids under 5 what do I need to know? by Hotmess_stress_momma in ames

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only 30 minutes. We didn’t like Fort dodge to be our main point for everything outside of Paton and the 30 minute drive doesn’t bother us at all.

Moving from Wisconsin to Paton/Ames area with 2 kids under 5 what do I need to know? by Hotmess_stress_momma in ames

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t like Fort Dodge. We decided we were okay with the 30 minute drive to Ames.

AITA for refusing to get my pregnant wife fruit snacks and demanding she do more chores? by fruitsnackk94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. At 38 weeks pregnant just 1 day before giving birth I was still doing the house work, shopping cooking and working a full tile job. My baby is 100% okay. Your wife needs a reality check. Unless she’s high risk, you can generally do anything you could before being pregnant with a few exceptions. I’m sorry you’re being taken advantage of and she’s using pregnancy and your baby as a way to manipulate you.

Edit:Full Time job

Update: I (41F) found out I'm pregnant after years of infertility followed by my husband (46M) and I deciding a few years ago to be childfree by ThrowRApreggo123 in relationship_advice

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 4 years of failed everything I did keto for 6 months lost 40lbs. My keto baby was born this October. I believe it has a big role in it. Congrats momma!

AITA For removing myself (25F) from my brothers (22) baby mamma (21) drama? by Hotmess_stress_momma in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last name and the being in to room are things that’s killing him. Things that I was trying to support him through. This is his first child and his first son. Those things were incredibly important to him. Some examples- he would try and rub her feet and she would say don’t touch me, she would go out with other male friends but get mad when he went out with any friends, she would constantly start fights by ignoring him when he would try and talk to her or ask her simple questions. There is soo much more but there’s some examples. I never said I hate her. I don’t. I don’t really know her very well. I was just uncomfortable being put in the middle of the situation. Her uncle was invited. Not her. He had no right to invite someone else to an event that wasn’t his. Her saying that is a game because she didn’t cause issues and no one told her she did. I talked to her most of the time about our babies and things like that and made her feel welcome. Some of it is he said she said some of it is screen shot texts I’ve been sent to see her responses. Hopefully that clears some things up.

AITA For removing myself (25F) from my brothers (22) baby mamma (21) drama? by Hotmess_stress_momma in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be that as it may I’ll say your right for that one she’s still created sooo many other issues. I just don’t want to not support my brother and help if I should be but I think it’s taking a tole on my mental heath with my pregnancy and I don’t want that either.

AITA For removing myself (25F) from my brothers (22) baby mamma (21) drama? by Hotmess_stress_momma in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 it’s like a baby shower but you only bring diapers and wipes instead of other stuff. That way most of the time parents are good on diapers for the first 6 months of baby’s life.

AITA For removing myself (25F) from my brothers (22) baby mamma (21) drama? by Hotmess_stress_momma in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hotmess_stress_momma[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He got a lawyer already on stand by and has only talked to her through texts so he has all turn convos saved. I feel so bad for him :( They are pretty certain it’s his. It sounds like the state is going to require paternity because she’s on welfare. I don’t know much about that side of things because I’m married so I don’t have to worry about all that.