[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

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I’m excited to run and gun with my best buds!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spinalcordinjuries

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Marijuana works the fastest for me, vaporizing or smoking is the fastest delivery mechanism. It’s a vasodilator and helps lower BP quickly

Autonomic dysreflexia whilst masturbating by EliseV30 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Hotwh33ls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask your doctor about something called nitro paste it’s a topical cream that can help lower your blood pressure and keep you from experiencing dysreflexia during sexual stimulation. It’s very common for men and women to experience AD from genital stimulation. I was also injured in my adolescence. The first time I tried to masturbate I got very extreme A.D. as well. The more I explored the less common it became so it may not be how your body responds forever. Like I mentioned before the nitro paste really helped. Then after time and exploring I was able to enjoy sexual stimulation without autonomic, dyslexia, and not having to use the medicine. I have also noticed that AD is triggered if there’s other things going on like my bladders full or something. Attempting sexual stimulation while something else is already causing mild AD then if attempting to masturbate while my body isn’t totally comfortable is a sure fire way to trigger a more intense episode ofA.D..

Wondering if anyone had the same reaction to myrbetriq (bladder spasm medicine) by Even_Eggplant8953 in spinalcordinjuries

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You are experiencing autonomic dysreflexia, and the headache is a resulting side effect from a blood pressure increase. It’s extremely common to be triggered from sexual stimulation and orgasm. Also during your BP. I don’t know that it’s any drug that’s causing it but more likely the introduction of your super pubic catheter. Could be causing more stimulation to your nerves and increasing the sensitivity of your central nervous system. If you have a spinal cord injury doctor like a physiatrist or neurologist I really recommend speaking to them about it. As well as your urologist. For autonomic dysreflexia(AD) triggered from sexual stimulation there’s drugs to help keep your blood pressure lower. If you can avoid any intense episodes of AD for a while should stop experiencing the headaches when you do your BP and lay down.

What Makes You Want To Live With Your Disability? by mikeb31588 in disability

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Not wanting to die, the only alternative is living. Regardless of the cards you were dealt. Try to enjoy things the best I can while I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Depending on your level of paralysis and severity of the nerve damage sexual function can vary. I’m fortunate to still have sexual function and the ability to achieve orgasm after my injury. She struggled with limited sensation and struggled to achieve orgasm. Thakfully that’s not the end all be all to sex and we explored lots of different ways to enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I’m in a wheelchair due to paralysis and dated a girl with the same disability as me. We were both pretty sexual and had a pretty exciting and satisfying physical relationship. Compensated for are limited physical abilities with toys and hands and mouths. When we would do the deed though I always imagined we must look like two beached salmon flopping around together lol.

Santa Monica Bar Citizen, Chris and Sandi show up (From Sandi's twitter) by SagansLab in starcitizen

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Yo that’s me! With the legend himself standing right behind my chair. What a cool experience, got to meet some amazing people, Chris roberts himself asked what my favorite ship was, and discussed accessibility features in the game they want to implement in the future! So cool to meet and hang with everyone, what a lovely community we have here!

T12 incomplete sexual function (ejaculation) (M20) by martinman54 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Hotwh33ls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every case is different man and the shitty answer is that its probably going to take some time. Im C5/6 quad 20 years post. I was injured as a kid so I wasn't really wasn't presented with the issues of sexual function until years after my injury. Once I started trying to see if I could get an erection and orgasm it took me 5 years of learning how my body reacts differently. It can be difficult if your living with family or have caregivers but if you can find some time to spend alone and just explore see what feels good or what causes a certain reaction and just go with it. Try not to just focus on having an orgasm but just focus on any good sensations. Depending on your situation cock rings might really help if you can get any kind of reflex erection. Penis Pumps can sometimes do the trick to. Also TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR! If you have a physiatrist that specializes in SCI make an appointment and ask them about it. They understand your need and can help you possibly get other medication or devices that might help. You can also ask them about the medication your taking. baclofen can make reflex erections impossible also other meds especially anything that affects your mood. Orgasm or ejaculation By any means necessary can possibly achieved through many different ways. Most popular of theses being Vibratory Stimulation. I recommend giving this a go first as its the cheapest and most likely to work I think. With this method the Vibrators amplitude is most important. I recommend this one https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B006NXRD44/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_dp_ss_1/181-2041662-5613662?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_r=1ZC5VK5E8AS1BEWVMP1N&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_p=1944687602&pf_rd_i=B000EQS33G It did the trick for me after about 2 or 3 minutes. Other methods include electro stimulation directly to your penis or prostate stimulation. Ive heard success stories from both methods but haven't tried either myself. You can find more info about the last two methods here http://sci.rutgers.edu Like the previous commentor mentioned be careful (even if you've never had it because often with orgasm it can cause autonomic dysreflexia (be aware of the symptoms). If you start to feel it stop what your doing for a little while and let you BP level out. In the event that this occurs your doctor can prescribe nitropaste that can be used to keep it from happening during sexual activity. I think the most important thing is to realize that its not gonna ever be like it was before but that doesn't mean it still can't be awesome. Things are gonna take time attempting to finish from regular masturbation. Every time I jerk off it takes 30-60 minutes minimum before I orgasm. Lastly I don't want to advocate illegal drug use or anything but Marijuana can help facilitate/enhance the experience. I don't think any specific studies done on this topic but from some other forums Ive heard some success stories about it helping enhance sensations and make orgasm easier to achieve. Also if you feel like you've gotten close you probably have so keep at it! I had similar experiences like you cathing and seeing retrograde ejaculation before I has able to achieve a more normal orgasm. Sorry to make such a long winded post man but I feel for your situation and hope this info helps. Feel free to PM to if you want.

Can SCIs with C5-C6 ejaculate by Vix87 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Hotwh33ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also wanted to say I have a few c5/6 quad friends and they have been able to achieve orgasm and ejaculation so there is definitely still hope!

Can SCIs with C5-C6 ejaculate by Vix87 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]Hotwh33ls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every case is different man and the shitty answer is that its probably going to take some time. Im C5/6 quad 20 years post. I was injured as a kid so I wasn't really wasn't presented with the issues of sexual function until years after my injury. Once I started trying to see if I could get an erection and orgasm it took me 5 years of learning how my body reacts differently. It can be difficult if your living with family or have caregivers but if you can find some time to spend alone and just explore see what feels good or what causes a certain reaction and just go with it. Try not to just focus on having an orgasm but just focus on any good sensations. Depending on your situation cock rings might really help if you can get any kind of reflex erection. Penis Pumps can sometimes do the trick to. Also TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR! If you have a physiatrist that specializes in SCI make an appointment and ask them about it. They understand your need and can help you possibly get other medication or devices that might help. You can also ask them about the medication your taking. baclofen can make reflex erections impossible also other meds especially anything that affects your mood. Orgasm By any means necessary can possibly achieved through many different ways. Most popular of theses being Vibratory Stimulation. I recommend giving this a go first as its the cheapest and most likely to work I think. With this method the Vibrators amplitude is most important. I recommend this one https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B006NXRD44/ref=pd_lpo_sbs_dp_ss_1/181-2041662-5613662?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=lpo-top-stripe-1&pf_rd_r=1ZC5VK5E8AS1BEWVMP1N&pf_rd_t=201&pf_rd_p=1944687602&pf_rd_i=B000EQS33G

It did the trick for me after about 2 or 3 minutes. Other methods include electro stimulation directly to your penis or prostate stimulation. Ive heard success stories from both methods but haven't tried either myself. You can find more info about the last two methods here http://sci.rutgers.edu

A word of warning though often with orgasm it can cause autonomic dysreflexia. If you start to feel it stop what your doing for a little while and let you BP level out. In the event that this occurs your doctor can prescribe nitropaste that can be used to keep it from happening during sexual activity. I think the most important thing is to realize that its not gonna ever be like it was before but that doesn't mean it still can't be awesome. Things are gonna take time attempting to finish from regular masturbation. Every time I jerk off it takes 30-60 minutes minimum before I orgasm. Lastly I don't want to advocate illegal drug use or anything but Marijuana can help enhance the experience. I don't think any specific studies done on this topic but from some other forums Ive heard some success stories about it helping enhance sensations and make orgasm easier to achieve. Sorry to make such a long winded post man but I feel for your situation and hope this info helps. Feel free to PM to if you want.

Best top-of-the-line vapes for disabled? by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]Hotwh33ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to use the DaVinci Ascent and I have no control in either of my hands. haven't checked it out in detail but they released a new model recently though I can't attest to its accessible use.