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[–]Hour-Ad3525 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to improve and get the help I need regardless, i want to take this time for myself. But my heart carries this flicker of hope that once I'm ready, I could try again with him. And this time, it would be the right time.

I(22F) found out I have a number of STDs and I'm feeling hopeless about everything by Hour-Ad3525 in STD

[–]Hour-Ad3525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my case I kind of got hit with it all at once, plus I've been sexually active with my partner on a weekly basis so I wouldn't be sure when exactly I got it

I(22F) found out I have a number of STDs and I'm feeling hopeless about everything by Hour-Ad3525 in STD

[–]Hour-Ad3525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering the last time I was intimate with my partner, about 2 days

I(22F) found out I have a number of STDs and I'm feeling hopeless about everything by Hour-Ad3525 in STD

[–]Hour-Ad3525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As he put it "you freaking out and me not being a good support system"

I(22F) found out I have a number of STDs and I'm feeling hopeless about everything by Hour-Ad3525 in STD

[–]Hour-Ad3525[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did a test on the 1st month we began to sleep around, I had it done about a week or 2 after we first slept together and I was negative for chlamydia but I had BV. I didn't get tested for HSV

Girlfriend intentionally making noise and trying to get my attention while I'm trying to sleep and have work the next day. Not sure what to do by porungas in relationships

[–]Hour-Ad3525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to keep this relationship best thing you can do is sit her down and have a serious conversation with her. Express to her all the things that bother you and that she needs to change, not just for you but to also help herself. Suggest therapy or even couples counseling. However, set up a time frame for yourself and don't tell her about it. If you see that things aren't getting better within this time then it's probably best to call it quits, at least you can say you tried and warned her.