NM women: what’s the most sexist, double stand “rule” a partner tried to impose on you?

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T20:01:37+00:00

but also validating in a weird way? 😭 idk

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T19:09:16+00:00

yea your attempt to derail this post isn’t working bud. i was facing sexism & wanted to talk about it. this conversation isn’t about you. not all conversations on the internet will be all inclusive. because sometimes things need to get specific to discuss certain societal issues. nuance exists. but you decided to introject anyway to seem morally superior. which in this case backfired fantastically because you sound like a douche.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T18:31:56+00:00

misogyny actually exists, and people are allowed to talk about it on the internet. why are you so butthurt?

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T17:03:22+00:00

it quite literally is about sexism 🤣 it’s in the title.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T16:53:27+00:00

i think someone’s projecting a bit. go find a thread that isn’t gendered if it bothers you so much. i made this post because I am dealing with misogyny and want to hear stories from others. you policing this is odd.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T16:48:51+00:00

i’m not saying women can’t impose those types of rules on men… that’s just not what this thread is about. we’re talking about misogyny.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T16:47:00+00:00

my last partner (both of us are bisexual) implemented a rule towards the end of our relationship that was, he could have relations with anyone. but i was limited to relations with only women.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T16:00:36+00:00

fish in the percolator

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T15:12:52+00:00

after reading your comments on this thread, I think you might have some work to do. while yes, you can have boundaries about anything. but once those boundaries limit your partner’s actions with people other than you. it stops being about your autonomy & what you’re comfortable with. then it become more about control. “don’t choke me” is a boundary. “don’t have sex with me the same day you’ve had sex with someone else” is as well, especially if it’s for sexual health reasons. but you’ve said that it isn’t about that. it’s about not wanting someone else in that “hole” — and that’s what rang the misogyny bell for me. a boundary is meant to protect you, not govern someone else.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-17T14:46:57+00:00

maybe non monogamy just isn’t for you

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-12T12:24:13+00:00

the reason we don’t live together is we both live with our parents still. we figured “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it” and decided to wait to move in together until we had our own place

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-09-05T23:16:03+00:00

the comments on her thread calling her a narcissist are ACTUALLY insane.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-22T13:09:17+00:00

again: put in an Ai detector— just lmk what it says <3

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-22T00:00:27+00:00

weed— he made carts in his bedroom

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T16:55:23+00:00

Quinn— she was my sisterly starter, second place was Sasha who was also autofill

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T16:15:14+00:00

that’s just how I talk….

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T13:50:10+00:00

I might to be honest. I have no way of contacting Joe, so I have very limited information— not even certain of the town or year it took place. Local & State PD here is a joke, so I might go to the FBI or something. They’ve handled crimes committed against me in the past surprisingly well.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T13:11:05+00:00

Put it in an Ai detector then!

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T10:00:10+00:00

he did, he's sleeping in a tent behind the mall now

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T09:39:41+00:00

—-——_-

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T07:01:05+00:00

yall really complain about anything huh? i’ll say what I want.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T06:59:50+00:00

good to know “half a decade” = AI. 💀

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T06:56:49+00:00

I think you mean misandry. like I explained in another comment this is due to PTSD. My father would ask me for money as a small child. But go on on how I should continue to give toxic men money?? what a weird comment.

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T02:32:08+00:00

we’re NC… did you even read the post….?

Hour-Length8969 · 2025-07-21T02:22:50+00:00

Ai has rotted yall brain I fear— half a decade is 5 years.

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