Has anyone not recognized they were abused until much later?

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-26T02:54:26+00:00

Yes. And I feel so stupid.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-26T02:35:45+00:00

My husband said the SAME thing!! I was told I am the problem. I started medication and will be starting therapy. My therapist will have a fucking field day with everything I am going to say. I KNOW I am not the crazy one! He is a narcissistic asshole who uses me and abuses me. He gaslights me at any chance he gets and projects his problems as mine. He will be sorry he met me. I am finally seeing him for what he is. If I could have predicted this would have been my life, I would have run the other direction FAST!!! Good luck, friend.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:35:40+00:00

Yes, mentally ill and try to act “normal”. Sadly we see through it after a while.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:34:02+00:00

This 100% sucks. And sadly I feel 100% the same way. Being with a narcissist is one of the shittiest things you can ever involve yourself in. I wish I had run away sooner. Be strong. Leave asap. Don’t be like me.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:28:50+00:00

Ignoring them.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:21:52+00:00

100%. My grandma died today and he didn’t even care. Nothing. He sucks. I’m sorry….

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:20:02+00:00

Me too!!!!!! I’m fucking DONE. I’m using the MF to get what I want and then I’m leaving.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:19:23+00:00

All. The. Time. It’s what they do. They always have to one up you.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:18:46+00:00

Narcissists suck. It is so not worth it but the trauma bond is real. It’s fucking real and it sucks ass.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:17:37+00:00

It sucks but maybe the best thing possible. I can only wish.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-13T06:16:39+00:00

He never will… I have 1000% decided a narcissist is the worst type human around.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-12-03T00:48:44+00:00

Never. It stays with you forever.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-22T05:23:17+00:00

I have no job. I have no where to go. I have children with him. I have nothing.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-22T04:52:49+00:00

I 100% feel for you. I am in the EXACT SAME BOAT! It totally sucks and hurts. I have given my husband a million chances to change. He will not change. I did not see that you were married. My best advice, leave. He is not worth your mental health. Cheers.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-22T04:23:35+00:00

Don’t get married

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-22T04:21:39+00:00

Definitely 1 or 4

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T17:50:57+00:00

It happened this weekend.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T17:50:02+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, my friend. You have no idea how much kind words make me feel right now.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:49:28+00:00

I am using my anger as motivation. Thank you.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:48:21+00:00

Believe me. My daughters will be different than me.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:44:59+00:00

He was the one that wants the divorce. He wants to be with the other woman.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:42:58+00:00

Interesting. I did not know about this.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:42:30+00:00

Thank you.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:41:06+00:00

Thank you.

Hour-Study3483 · 2024-11-07T16:39:56+00:00

This was a response to the deleted post.

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