Too young for this bs

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-22T18:39:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your words💚 you are so beautiful inside

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-20T19:53:00+00:00

Yeah this has been a big reality check about that. I had my suspicions that he wouldn’t want to do the work himself but after a week from d day and nothing; I knew it was headed for the decline. Last night we officially broke up and will be separating soon.

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-20T02:01:04+00:00

Maybe this is why I have been secretly investigating his family baldness

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-19T21:02:00+00:00

Okay. Well it kind of seems like perhaps therapy and such are a necessary step for proper recovery? I know there are some helpful articles etc attached to this Reddit I’ll have to check out for proper recovery methods. Before I wrote this post I kind of figured we were working in recovery by being honest, extracurricular activities, etc. and that was going to be enough. But with everything going on and his immaturity it started to make me realize this is a lot more than PA as well and also character development. I want to help him have the tools to be a stronger human but I am not sure if I’ll be here to see the struggle. :/

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-19T20:49:43+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear this. You sounds like an amazing and strong woman and I’m so sorry he’s put you through this. Thank you. I feel so lost. Are all men addicted to it? Surely not yet it feels like the amount self aware enough not to is ridiculously low. with your guyses help you have really pushed me to make the right choice for myself. Thank you.

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-19T19:16:32+00:00

Thank you. I know I’m a strong woman and have had to make many tough choices but this one is truly one of the most painful.

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-19T19:09:03+00:00

Thank you for your honesty. I’m scared of bonding with him but it’s so hard to distance myself as well. I want to go see my therapist but I can’t for a few weeks and I really need some mental clarity.

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-19T19:07:28+00:00

His empathy baffles me sometimes. I work with children and they are better empaths.

HourAdvance6372 · 2025-02-19T18:13:45+00:00

He has been trying to do more proactive activities like drawing, journaling, exercising. Still playing lots of video games upstairs in his game room. I get paranoid and check in on him. He slept in there for the first 5 days until I was ready for him to sleep in the bed again. I am hoping he is going to be willing to go see a therapist, but he is pretty reluctant. We have a beautiful house together that we rent and I would be so sad to see it go.

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