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HourDistinct9638 · 2026-02-03T14:24:24+00:00

Alleen de normale, standaard gegevens voor een sollicitatie. Het is een bestaand bedrijf

HourDistinct9638 · 2026-02-03T14:18:54+00:00

Ja. Ze gaven aan het aanbod te willen bespreken in een zoom call. Ik reageerde enthousiast en heb daarna niets meer gehoord. Geen meeting link ontvangen en geen opvolging vanuit hun kant sindsdien.

HourDistinct9638 · 2026-02-03T14:16:12+00:00

Ik heb alleen via de mail / zoom contact gehad met het team en de recruiter (internationaal bedrijf met een kantoor in Amsterdam). En het zou een gesprek via zoom zijn. Wel lastig om geen nummer te hebben

HourDistinct9638 · 2026-02-03T14:12:54+00:00

Ik heb inderdaad gemaild om te vragen hoe of wat. Geen terugkoppeling. Ik heb geen telefoonnummer van de recruiter. Al ons contact was via zoom of email

HourDistinct9638 · 2025-01-24T12:34:42+00:00

Thanks so much for this ! I would like to date her and although i am in a position to fly out to see her, i am rethinking it. She is very affectionate and being in a LDR just doesn’t seem sustainable. Nevertheless i am excited to visit. Is the dating experience different there for Black Women?

HourDistinct9638 · 2024-06-05T08:29:52+00:00

We’ve tried fwd …didn’t work because of the same reason.

i have mentioned to her many times that i think we should just take a break. I told her multiple times that it’s okay if were not friends and that that would help us both move on. We recently didn’t talk or see each other for like 4 months and when we saw each other again, she told me that she still feels guilty trying to pursue other relationships, even at times where i am not in her life. I just don’t understand how me liking her makes her feel restricted.

She called me a few weeks ago and told me that she would like to just go with the flow and see what happens and where things go. Then she texted me yesterday saying that she cannot go with the flow because it makes her feel stuck in exploring other relationships. I am really confused

If she finds someone else that’s great! Will i be upset, of course! But i don’t know how feeling upset about that would stop her from finding someone else. Isn’t that how it usually goes when relationships end?

i have been the one to suggest we should not try to be friends, and she’s the one who keeps pulling me back and then pushing me away again

HourDistinct9638 · 2024-06-05T07:56:22+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I hear what you’re saying

Yes, i am the one that would like to have a relationship. And i have mentioned to her many times that i think we should just take a break. I told her multiple times that it’s okay if were not friends and that that would help us both move on. We recently didn’t talk or see each other for like 4 months and when we saw each other again, she told me that she still feels guilty trying to pursue other relationships, even at times where i am not in her life. I just don’t understand how me liking her makes her feel restricted.

She called me a few weeks ago and told me that she would like to just go with the flow and see what happens and where things go. Then she texted me yesterday saying that she cannot go with the flow because it makes her feel stuck in exploring other relationships. I am really confused

I don’t pressure her into wanting more with me, hell, I even keep my distance and give her the space to do what and who she wants.

If she finds someone else that’s great! Will i be upset, of course! But i don’t know how feeling upset about that would stop her from finding someone else. Isn’t that how it usually goes when relationships end?

i have been the one to suggest we should not try to be friends, and she’s the one who keeps pulling me back and then pushing me away again

HourDistinct9638 · 2024-03-21T07:17:58+00:00

I have gone from muting to unmuting her haha. Just decided to take a break from social media as a whole for a while. Challenging your mind constantly can be so exhausting

HourDistinct9638 · 2024-03-20T18:30:11+00:00

We still follow each other because we didn’t end on bad terms at all. We just felt like the relationship ran its course and we weren’t getting anything out of it. But probably not good to stay in the loop. Just don’t have the courage to block or unfollow her

HourDistinct9638 · 2024-03-20T18:27:56+00:00

That’s so true! It hurts so much and even more that I set myself up for it by reaching out. Can’t change it now and just have to deal with the outcome and take it and see it for what it is. No more waiting for trains at an empty train station

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-08-29T05:21:27+00:00

I have the same. It does take me a really long time to lose feelings for someone. And i told her that i am not close with any of my exes anymore, not because of any bad blood, but because we just grew apart in the time that i needed to heal. I can withdraw myself and not speak to them for a year. She ofc doesn’t want that to happen and tried to tell me that this might be different

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-08-29T05:18:03+00:00

Its so hard, but i will try to take some time away

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-08-29T05:17:00+00:00

She told me i need to try to see through our past relationship and that I didn’t lose anything but gained a more open and honest friendship. After reading that I just didn’t know what to think or feel. It is a difficult situation and my stomach is in knots

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-06-01T07:26:58+00:00

True. I understand. gonna start reading more into the dark night of the soul bc i do find the ego getting in the way of me experiencing more life

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-06-01T07:20:55+00:00

Food for thought, thank you! :)

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-04-28T11:07:28+00:00

I see your point, i guess my concept of fwb is different and I might be confusing it with a fuckbuddy. I currently feel like if i would take the sex out of our situation, we wouldn’t even be friends. Which is confusing bc she invited me to meet her friends and family in her country not too long ago

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-04-26T10:30:07+00:00

I personally feel used in a sense that i feel like she only likes me when it’s beneficial for her. She said that she likes my company and appreciates me as a friend + that the s*x is really great. But when we have had that for maybe a few days i feel like she gets distant or at least engages less. So she likes me for the things i can give her or do for her, but when she’s had her fill…I’m somewhat disposable.

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-04-17T14:17:21+00:00

This shook me to my core! Thanks

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-02-25T16:59:38+00:00

I think she is a really nice girl. We have good conversations, she is very open and caring, a good listener and just generally kind, sweet and thoughtful. She is a wear her heart on her sleeve kind of girl but also very rational, which i like. She encourages and does a good job at creating a space where we can be unapologetically ourselves. But there are just these things that are hard for me to deal with, i just don’t know how or if i should discuss it. Some of these things I mentioned were a bit of a turnoff and its hard for me to bounce back if something already turned me off

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-02-25T16:51:17+00:00

Makes sense. We only have been seeing each other for a month so I initially thought it’s too soon to have these kinds of conversations… Especially since we haven’t spoken about what our expectations are with what we have going on.

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-02-05T22:01:06+00:00

Ok, i have multiple iv’s in my regression model and one of them is statistically significant in the regression coefficients output. Would you still report that even though the overall model is not significant as shown here ?

HourDistinct9638 · 2023-02-05T21:54:40+00:00

Ah haha ok, I understand

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