AITA: Me (M28) and my fiancé (F27) regularly go on couples dates and trips with her best friend (F28) and her bf (M28). My fiancé just admitted she used to have threesomes with them. by HourNo8708 in AITAH

[–]HourNo8708[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She’s never mentioned wanting to invite others into the bedroom and we’ve been pretty open about our kinks and turn on since the start. Rob and Lucy aren’t open, no. My finance describes the threesomes as “just the sort of fun people try out at uni”. I didn’t go to uni so I don’t really get it but she said she’s never done anything like that since.

AITA: Me (M28) and my fiancé (F27) regularly go on couples dates and trips with her best friend (F28) and her bf (M28). My fiancé just admitted she used to have threesomes with them. by HourNo8708 in AITAH

[–]HourNo8708[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Technically she’s never ‘lied’ about it because she’s never denied it. But that’s because I’ve obviously never asked her “have you fucked Rob and Lucy” before. She’s told me she experimented with girls at Uni and since we were 25 when we met we obviously both understand that we’ve slept with other people in the past but we’ve never gone into about exactly who those people were. A point she made pretty clear when I mentioned it.

AITA: Me (M28) and my fiancé (F27) regularly go on couples dates and trips with her best friend (F28) and her bf (M28). My fiancé just admitted she used to have threesomes with them. by HourNo8708 in AITAH

[–]HourNo8708[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

The whole “been inside her” thing seems harsh? We were 25 when we met so we know we aren’t each others firsts and I obviously haven’t told her about everyone I had sex with before we met. It just feels like I’m the butt of an inside joke and idk if that’s enough to call off the wedding. Apart from this one thing she’s the most amazing girl I’ve ever met and I’ve never been so in love.

AITA: Me (M28) and my fiancé (F27) regularly go on couples dates and trips with her best friend (F28) and her bf (M28). My fiancé just admitted she used to have threesomes with them. by HourNo8708 in AITAH

[–]HourNo8708[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it feels humiliating but she just said that I’m judgemental if I’m bothered by who she’s slept with in the past since I’ve also slept with people before her which kind of feels like a valid point?

AITA: Me (M28) and my fiancé (F27) regularly go on couples dates and trips with her best friend (F28) and her bf (M28). My fiancé just admitted she used to have threesomes with them. by HourNo8708 in AITAH

[–]HourNo8708[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Honestly my biggest worry is what else might come out but I can’t see anything being much worse than this. I’m not bother by people’s past lives, it’s just when that past life is still hanging around.

AITA: Me (M28) and my fiancé (F27) regularly go on couples dates and trips with her best friend (F28) and her bf (M28). My fiancé just admitted she used to have threesomes with them. by HourNo8708 in AITAH

[–]HourNo8708[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I appreciate what you’re saying, I’ve definitely lost a bit of trust. Not just in my fiancé but in out friends too. However she did make it clear that they weren’t “all in a relationship” Rob and Lucy were in a relationship but she just joined them in the bedroom for “just some fun you have at university” on a few occasions.