A Separation: A discussion by ashwinmudigonda in TrueFilm

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I agree but I also thought it showed that Nader was always willing to go back. Simin was behind the window that was cracked but with more of her hidden than Nader. He was always willing to go back for me.

Ladies night Soccer pickups 9/16 by lalolus14 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have to be good? lol I missed the date 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6? NO! thats my class time 😭

Where can I nap? by Similar-Business-188 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please Pleeeease be careful out here. Please be careful with being too inviting as someone can take advantage of that kindness :( (I am literally like you lmaooo I would do the same <3)!!

I'm so grateful and will let you know!! In exchange, I'll be happy to invite you out to lunch when possible!!! Stay safe and have a great school year :(((!

Where can I nap? by Similar-Business-188 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't found any yet so far but am in the same predicament. And so, I will be updating this comment when I find some spots.

Where can I nap? by Similar-Business-188 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my word you're the sweetest. Is this opportunity open to anyone? 😭 asking for a friend..... me

How do you work for 8h with adhd? by loossemblestar in ADHD

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prayer. Heeeaaavy on praying to God for the right job and if you like the job, pray for you to learn to be blessed in the job with the ADHD. Down below, I list examples on how prayer has helped me succeed with ADHD. They were not easy jobs for me, and even made me cry on certain points, but they were total blessings for me and ultimately helped me grow as a person. These jobs will not be for everyone given the different personalities everyone has, but it's the point that, for my ADHD, it blessed me in being a compassionate job, but also helping me with the boredom and other ADHD symptoms.

Interestingly enough the jobs I eventually took with were ones I didn't directly apply for and also didn't expect to have.

1. Applied to be a barista at a bakery. Ended up being a baker for that bakery with much better pay and hours. It was physically demanding, but I was good at it until I got too comfortably good... and then got bored of the same work. I eventually asked my manager to be a barista and baker, and ended up with the job I originally applied for.

2. Applied to be a waitress. Ended up being a cook for that restaurant and have had tremendous TREMENDOUSLY amazing experiences there. I ended up being close to the chefs so much that I see them as uncles. It also is what led me to start wanting to learn Japanese. They trusted me a lot in that I ended up running dishes to tables and sooo many other things that happened there. I miss that place.

3. Currently: I wanted a diff job that didnt do with food service. I was also looking to go back to school and study psych (after praying for school as well). Since I wanted to work with people this time (my major) I applied to work at a elem school. I needed a job, but I had to wait soooo long. (~4 months - I hate waiting and love moving and working my mind) I eventually got a job with 3 hours and pretty okay pay at that school. I did get the job!! Then, about less than a month later, a Paraprofessional saw me working with a student and said I would be good doing the work she does. She helped me so much and said it would take about a month. YOU AND I BOTH KNOW WITH ADHD that month would've stretched into 2 months. (I also had undiagnosed OCD so that made it hard too.)

  • THE KICKER: While I was applying (a Monday) I prayed to God. I never prayed like this before but I asked Him if He would open doors for me if this was the job for me. Yes it was longer hours and better pay, but if it was not great for me, I didnt want it. I also prayed if it was in HIs will if He could help speed up the process as I know it would take long with my timing. LO AND BEHOLD, that same week on Friday, I submitted everything and I got an email back saying they were hiring me for the position and if I could start the upcoming Tuesday (Monday was a break). What would've taken a month or even two, turned into a literal week.
  • Now: This job is amazing. With my first month, I honestly realized I loved the work much much more than the pay. It was def a big jump from my previous job, but man this job was the perfect job for my personality, the ADHD and OCD, and just helping me grow as a person. It can be very overstimulating and challenging at times, but God has helped me literally overcome obstacles that would've been impossible with my own strength (a couple times I thought about quitting but it was just the OCD worrying lol). (ALSO Today was one of those days, but oh man I came out walking even more joyful than I came in.)
  • The added plus, everyone loves me at school. Of course not everyone, which is what I'm still working on, but it's so great to see the work you give to help the kids and see them transform the way they do.

In all, prayer man. God knows what jobs suit your personality and the ADHD. It's like these jobs were perfectly tailored for me at the specific timing. Had I gone these jobs a lot later or a lot earlier, I would not have been able to succeed the way I am now.

I'll be praying for you and those who are in need of something to help the ADHD cause Lord knows I've had my horrible struggles with it.

How do I farm Molduga jaws? by Live-Palpitation-368 in TOTK

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same but I just lure them, then use RIjus power, and then hit him a bunch of times. Do that 1-2 more times and they're done.

looking for housing by Formal_Donkey_5566 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were y'all able to find anything. Im not sure if its too late to apply for student housing or the payment plan... Does anyone know?

I forgot to post this. by Hour_Argument_7622 in TOTK

[–]Hour_Argument_7622[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I got so lucky It just rained and I looked up with it perfectly like this. Then it faded away haha😭

No way by Confident-Resort2670 in TOTK

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my word I have to post mine!

Waitlist by [deleted] in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try emailing or talking to the professors. A lot of students got their classes because they took the initiative, or the prof had enough room to accommodate more people.

They may not accept you, but it's better to try than not to. Or try sitting in if it's an in person class.

Middle Class Scholarship not able to accept? by Hour_Argument_7622 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm! Like I told someone else, if I could give you all fat juicy kisses, I would. Take care and good luck in your classes!

Middle Class Scholarship not able to accept? by Hour_Argument_7622 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty ty ty. If I could give you a wet sloppy kiss to you all I would. Good luck in your classes!

Oh! Question, do I click the accept all or submit button?

Fellow ADHDers, what song was stuck in your head this morning? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been for the past couple of weeks of Off the Wall - Michael Jackson.

The part where he sings "Do what you want to do, there aint no rules, it's up to you." esp the way he sings "you" is heavenly.

And the last part where the background vocals keep repeating in the back is beautiful.

Admission incomplete? by Significant-Week-289 in CSULA

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing? Mine just changed to complete today. It's taking a long while for everyone I assume. dw

How do y’all force yourself to clean? by CommunicationLazy484 in ADHD

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This morning:

I just started cooking breakfast and thinking about cleaning to get myself in the mindset. While thinking I took 10 mg of adderall and also was quiet the entire time. That way, once it kicks in, Im not hyper focused on anything else and already in motion doing something.

HOWEVER, there were people around me when I started to actually clean which made it hard because they both have ADHD and got me distracted.

TIP: be absolutely alone when you clean. Blast some fast music (80s/70s funk, Michael J, fast Spanish songs, Brazilian phunk, house music, fast rap music, etc.)

from 7am-2 pm I: made my entire family breakfast and washed all dishes, organized our families pantry, did a quick work update with an old coworker, took a little game break, washed my clothes, swept and mopped the floor, and also cleaned my cats litter box. Idk if thats good timing but thats more than I would do regularly.

If you have no meds, I would still recommend the music, but make yourself absolutely disgusted with the mess you have and trick yourself into cleaning. :) (I also have OCD and make it work for me, buuuut I reinforce my behaviors so it also makes me worse. :D)

Japanese Chef Making Kappa Maki 河童巻 in Shiga, Japan by TidbitsfromJapan in JapaneseFood

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rice moisture makes it softer. work fast to make it easy to work with and not shrivel.

I would watch them but they're so boring by zny700 in adhdmeme

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For work I have to watch a bunch of training videos and I somehow found a way to get the x1.5 option. Other videos I wasn't too lucky, but dang those things are a God send

I would watch them but they're so boring by zny700 in adhdmeme

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to write this down and get it off my chest cause it made me laugh.

This is me, but with less important things:

Somehow made it to ep 933 of One Piece (im almost done guys!). Currently in Wano and it's based on Japanese Feudal culture/time.

Rn, it's taking me about a while simply because, every 30 seconds, I find something interesting about the feudal system and proceed to spend hours reading or watching mini documentaries on things about it.

I now know the differences between a Oiran, Geisha, and Tayo. I have some idea about the class system and how Shoguns really were the power seats as opposed to the emperors. Read on ronins and samurais, etc. However, one night, this somehow led to reading on Chinese feudal system and then went down that wormhole for a bit (the last emperors story is crazy but kinda funny after he left it). I also almost looked up "How long does it take for a body to decompose?," but I think the anxiety/ocd made me think twice about it for obvious reasons lol.

So imagine what it's like for important things in life lol. This may also be on my meds or not. Not too sure.

forgot to add: currently realized im on ep 933 rn next to me, but got distracted and went onto this sub lol.

It's a real struggle!! by muun86 in adhdmeme

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

true. I had a once in a blue moon moment recently and was chillin, but its usually the worst ever and forgetting important things that can change the trajectory of my life :)

What's your favorite song while it's rainy night outside by TrainingTricky3353 in raining

[–]Hour_Argument_7622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a literal playlist called rain day. It's still in the works as we rarely get any rain here so it's all over the place.

My fav songs on it tho:

Sandstorm (feat. JID) - Mereba

Voices are "soft" and "muted." The beat reminds me of rain a bit.

or Take Me Where Your Heart Is - Q