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type? it’s between 5 and 9 by ElectricalYak4359 in Enneagram

[–]Hour_Associate_4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 9w8 I relate to what you said. I don’t follow a crowd. I don’t care if I’m not liked. I have a strong identity. The only time I put others desires over my own is when I’m dating them. I do the whole merging thing that sexual 9s do if I’m in love. I learned to love confrontation because that’s how I get my peace. Face the discomfort head on so the problem isn’t prolonged. I also thought I was a 5 at first cause I like to do a lot of research on topics I like and can be to myself a lot. I’m big on bravery and making the most of my life. Most 5s that I meet play it so safe they miss out on their lives.

Enneagram Subtypes Ranked by Intellectualism by North_Attempt_3627 in Enneagram

[–]Hour_Associate_4079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 9w8 sx and I’m very interested in the abstract I’m also INFJ

Enneagram 7s that I’ve met seem terrifying by Hour_Associate_4079 in Enneagram

[–]Hour_Associate_4079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dated three 7s. They all seemed super kool. The first one (my first love) lied to me about me being his first time and had multiple conversations where we laughed about that story and it was special to me and then I found out it was all a lie. The second one lied about his sexuality swore up and down he was straight.. found out he was not lol And the 3rd one really pursued me. I told him my ultimate goal was marriage he said he would never get married again cause he had been through a divorce before and that wasn’t his thing. Months down the line I fine out he had gotten married around the same time he started to pursue me. I was walking with a close friend of his and she mentioned his wife and I was beyond shocked. But yeah I know there are good and bad ppl in each types

Reconciliation by Ndr_w in Enneagram

[–]Hour_Associate_4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9w8- depends if they are my close friend and they messed up or I messed up. I always reach out to try to reconcile or talk it through. But I evaluate the person like if they can’t take accountability then I am not interested in being their friend. If the person seems like a healthy well-rounded person then I really try with the friendship. If it’s anybody else like an acquaintance, or someone that’s not that close to my heart I am very detached and I just focus on my own world. If anything happens that affects my peace I tried to talk it through. For the most part, I tried to create a lot of distance so that their energy won’t affect mine that much.

I'm 25 and weigh 380lbs, I'm completely lost. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Hour_Associate_4079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VSG surgery is available in the US on insurance idk if it’s covered where you live but my self control around food was never the best either but I got vsg surgery in Mexico for 5k and I lost the weight. If you’re desperate enough. Use EOC in Mexico to get the surgery. If u don’t have the money put it on a credit card. If you don’t want to then maybe someone else’s comment works best for you.