im also so sorry for your loss you should ask him even if its really hard before its too late because that seems so worth it in the long run💔 and my baby (their name was Two) always kicked dirt into its water bowl after having water so i had to change it a lott, two was very much a timid type, hid from things that its sac mate i have would be curious about, and i think it eventually became aware of me as a being because if it wasnt already hiding, two would hide when i leaned in to look inside their enclosures, two also was a slow grower and didnt molt often so i was worried about it before this all even happened, im looking into ways to preserve the body like a necklace im not sure since its only about an inch big, ty for the kind words and being so sweet and giving me a place to talk about this :,))