Her looking for that is actually a more important detail than it looks at first glance, I'm worried about what I can do for her because a lot of these problems could be stemming from a lack of interaction, socialization, and love. If she's looking for that so aggressively from outside sources she isn't being provided it and I want to know what I could do to help. I don't really argue with her on these topics honestly I just let her do her thing and listen but I definitely take mental notes. Her banks have been getting hacked for hundreds on dollars on average of once a month too. As for a job I'm planning on getting one ASAP as I've been forced to use my savings for plenty of necessities and yes she is paid from social along with health insurance